lesbian first time?

[good__girl]

im wondering if any girls here are lesbian or bi and when was your first time? and how do you think i should approach others about it

[BeautifulSilence]

Moved to Teen Sexuality.

As in first time you mean experiences, right?

Technically I'm bisexual BUT it's complicated as right now AND I've not had a lesbian experience yet. So, some would probably just call me bicurious? ...I dunno, but tbh, I don't actually subscribe to a label - it's just easier to call myself bisexual than to explain everything.

Approach others about... telling them your gay/bi or asking them for an experience?

Either way. I suggest waiting for that special girl to come along.

I don't think it's important to tell people your sexuality, unless they specifically ask... And as for asking for an experiencing, maybe it's something you want to wait for - to make it just that bit more special :)

[byee]

(golly, isn't our Laura consistently wonderful?).

You know, everyone seeks companionship, it's a basic human need. Regardless of orientation, the best way is the slow, natural way. Just start by being open to new friends and see what develops. With time, people unfold themselves to you, and you can determine what works best for you.

There's no substitute for patience, openness and time, with all three everyone can find someone.

[Halibut]

well im not sure what to call it for me..sometimes i liek to make out with girls but i think its gross doing anyting more (well formyself) others can do as they please lol! and myn was aboutu 14

[Buggahh]

I am pansexual which basically means you dont know who you will fall for until you do. I went out with a girl long distance but didnt really think much of it. But then i felt really attracted to this girl and we kissed last summer. Ever since I have known that I have been attracted to both genders however on the other hand I havent told anyone except for a few close friends because I'm not sure if i am only attracted to both genders because of my hormones or because i do genuinly like both genders.
Wait til it feels right, you have to feel ready to tell people and to do anything with any girls or guys. Some people may find it hard to except but others will be supportive :)

[Sapphire]

I'm bisexual and although I didn't experiment for the first few years after learning of my sexuality, the curiosity was always there.

I was 15 when I first kissed a girl and tbh I wish I had gone about it differently. For starters, she was drunk and I nearly was. But while I was happy with my sexuality, she was struggling with hers. Her insecurity drove us apart and nearly permanently ruined a 10 year friendship.

My advice: Although you may be ready to approach others about experimenting, take the time to get a good idea of their feelings on the subject before you ask them to experiment with you. Also, choose the girl carefully. You don't want to risk losing a very dear friend over something like this. And remember to be safe about it all.

[Saphire_Alexi]

I THINK Im bi..or bicurious, cuz i havent had an experience cept for when a few girlfriends (friends who are girls in this case) tried to rape me, I mean, i didnt really enjoy it, but after I became curious, and am going through the same dilemma...please email or IM me at [email protected] if your bi!!!

[ackmedsgirl666]

i think for me you could say that i'm bi curious also as i have experimented with girls and guys
i reale like girls even tho i do date the odd guy
so at this point i'm kinda confused about my sexuality
so bi-curious i guess is where i fit in

[charx]

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