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[HikaruTheHunter]

So, this is what happened. I've had this crush on this girl, who is my best friend, for a while now, since she came to this school in November.

She is so cute and I like her a lot.

So I believe it was last week, I asked her out, and she said no because we were best friends. I just saw that coming, and that's the same thing that happened with my ex-girlfriend.

We were dating...but I broke up with her because she wasn't my best friend anymore, she was just a mean evil person.

I was thinking about asking the girl I like out again maybe in High School years, like sophomore or something. What do you think about that?

[IAMWILL]

Well....

First off is you got to sort out your feelings with this first girl, not your ex. If your best friends, normally it stays that way. You said you knew she would say no if you asked her out, so why did you in the first place? Obviously you have some doubts about her, and like you said, it's just a crush.

Now as for asking her later in life, it's not really up to us! If you feel same way about her now as you do in your sophmore year, sure, go for it. Crushes tend to fade though, and a lot changes in high school, so don't expect to still be only attracted to her then. Until that time though, just stay friends, until out feel it's the right time.

[TAC1]

i know how you feel. I have had the same problem. Since you guys are best friends just stick to best friends for now. Even my best friend said that we might go out when we get older. Go ahead and ask her out in High School years- maybe she'll see what you see in her.

Hope that helps,

JJ

[byee]

I think you should forget about the formality of 'Asking her out'. It's really meaningless, anyway. What you want is for her to be your besty, and there's nothing preventing that. Just spend time with her and enjoy her and let it evolve, don't look to put a label on it or get her to agree to something which sounds much more official than it is. Committments come in many forms, most of the best are unspoken (but clearly felt) anyway.