i'm not sure what to do

[ackmedsgirl666]

i recently figured out im bi
im dating my bestfriend whos a girl
we have almost been 2gether for 2 mths
but things have been getting very stressful
becuz of how ppl r dealing with this
it kinda leaves me hanging
her mom isn;t too happy
my dad is not pleased and claimes that im going through a phase but i know im not becuz i rele do trully love this PERSON
but the stress has led to many things
my main problem is cutting
i wish i wud not do it as im afraid that i don seek help now and get treated i will be too late and i will lose everything including this girl that i love
not sure how to figure things out
who shud i talk 2 and who can i get help from
how can i make our relationship better
its been almost a week since this GIRL told her mom
its easier that we don have to be sneaky about things whenever im over at her house and vice-versa
anyone got any helpful ideas for me??

[foreverjd14]

if ur parents are listening or whatever
mabye you should talk 2 a school counselor or a teacher
it seems weird maybe but they really do help

[Lifeguard18]

First off don't cut yourself if u have the urge to cut yourself break a pencil or throw something against the wall. Talk to someone who you can trust like a counselor or a close friend. If your parents don't listen to you then have them sit down on the couch or around a table and ask them why don't listen to me I need your help. Or a different question. If they still don't listen mitigate them to go to FLAG meetings. Please not that my advice is not accurate but it will help.

[Lifeguard18]

I meant motivate them to go to FLAG....
Sorry about that

[rette_mich]

First of all I really hope that you can stop cutting, it will cause more problems then help solve anything. Trust me on that.
Second of all, it seems as though it will be a stressful time, I would assume that anyone in a relationship that was of the same gender would have some stress at first when everyone found out. That may be wrong though.
I would think that it would get better. People tend to become more open to things when they have time to think it over.
Good luck sweetie, it sounds like you really care about this girl.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i really really do care about her alott
she was always there for me and one day it just sorta happened
but last nite was another bad nite cuz my foster mom toom away all of my freedom and now im not alowed to see her
sorry JUSTCRACKEN but thats what terri decided