Hormones? Curious??

[Whatshappening22]

Hi, this is my first post, so im not excactly sure how to present this. I have a problem. My best friend and I have been friends since before we started school. But im not sure what happened. I was at her house for a sleepover and for some reason she was really horny. She talked dirty which somehow got me a little horny and she said she wanted to masturbate. I said it was okay, because, i was pretty horny too. We started masturbating alone and she said she was REALLY horny. She said she needed somebody else so we started making out. We had done this before (im not bi, just curious.. i think...) and it kept going on for about a minute before she started fingering me! I didnt know what to say, it felt 10 times better then masturbating alone, but shes my friend! It felt REALLY good . I started fingering her, and it felt better then anything in my entire life because it guess its just not being alone. We did it for about fifteen minutes before i had an orgasm and she had one about five minutes later and squirted a little (which i have never done) and she did it with me for another half hour before she got really tired and we went to bed. I am going to her house this weekend for another sleepover, and i have mixed feelings about doing it again! I REALLY want to because it felt so good, but i dont want to because i dont want to ruin our friendship. HELP ME! WHAT DO I DO!?
Any advice for next time i see her?

THANK YOU SOO MUCH!
I was at her house sleeping over this weekend, and this time, i was the horny one. But this time, i talked about it, and said how weird it was, and we kind of talked it out. And all in all, we felt better about it. We said not to be nervous and things like that. We did it again, and it was 10 times better knowing it's natural curiosity and she knew how i felt about it! Thank you soo much for your support!

[byee]

Well, I'm not sure about this 'ruining' your friendship as much as it could change it. Becoming sexual with someone usually alters the relationship, and you and she would do well to talk a little about this before you decide to do it again.

The first time this happened, it was spontaneous, but if you and she decide to do it again, it would be a planned thing, you would be doing it b/c you both liked it and want to continue it. By discussing it first, what you're doing and why, and what both of your expectations are, there's less of a chance that someone will get hurt as the relationship changes into a sexual one, b/c you have a mutual understanding about this, what it means, and where it's going.

Talk about it first. Make sure both of you are OK with what it means to the friendship.

[Megannn]

You're both probably just curious......like lots of other girls (me included) lol
I don't see anything wrong with it. Talk it over together and see how you both feel about it. If you don't think it's going to affect your friendship....go for it and have fun :D

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

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