Wondering

[ILOVEYOU]

i wonder what kind of sex girls like?
i heard so many things about it, that male wanted to do some hard... things, but female didn't like that, wanted some Soft... sex. is that right? lol
Sorry moderators if there is any problem in this thread.

[byee]

"Hard" things? "Soft" things?

People who view eachother as people (not sexual receptacles) tend to be responsive to their partners needs, so they work these things out. However, being responsive is something that occurs with time, often it's preceeded by self centerdness, that idea that only your needs matter.

As long as you're in an emotionally satisfying relationship, whereby you're aware of and are concerned about your partner's well being, there's less of a chance of being dissatisfied. It's only when one person's needs takes precedence that there's unhappiness.

[ILOVEYOU]

i meant, Hardcore sex, and Soft sext like Romantic and Love Sex, i thought mods will attack me if i use these words.lol.
Nice, Thank you

[nick]

You haven't got many replies yet, I think thats because we still don't understand the question. Sex is sex, I sure dont know what 'hard stuff' is (you're not trying to make a snuff movie I assume?).

Girls (I guess) want a guy who will be loving and tender and take their time over things, not wham, bam and goodbye. But any decent guy this is what they want to give anyway

[byee]

Oh, thanks for the clarification, it makes it easier to respond accurately. I think you can be straight around here as long as it's not really rude or nasty or intentionally provocative, which this isn't.

I don't think there's a universal rule about what girls want in sex, in much the same way that there's not a universal for guys. It changes from person to person (regardless of gender) and from time to time. What works now might be different than next time with the same person, sex is a need and needs change.

As I said before, I think people in committed relationships communicate with eachother about their needs, including their sexual ones, so you can be responsive (and be responded to) based on what you (or they) might need or want.

[rette_mich]

Well as a girl, I would personally prefer for my first time (I am a virgin) that it was more passionate and loving then rough and lusty.
Though I have no problems with lust haha.

[ILOVEYOU]

Nice, Thank you All, i just wanted to know What Kind Of Sex they like to do. like kissing, i was thinking they wouldnt like F****** at first, some hugs first and making out and then the big thing. i'm straight and i Really Love Girls, all of them. thats why i want to know what they like.
Thanks anyway