Condom or not?

[Wayvrn]

Hello, I will keep this short.

Who here likes and dislikes condoms? I personally dont like them, if just before sex, what should I or Her use that will still be anti-pregnany apart from condom?

Any ideas/thoughts/experiences etc, thanks! :)

[Antares]

Umm well there are other methods other than condoms. There are female condoms and diaphrams...thats all I can really think of.

In short. Use the condom. Its been proven as the most effective.

[Wayvrn]

Diaphrams? Whats that? Theres also spermacide, that any good? (For the Females)

Also on the condom note, how do I know which size to buy and how would I get any?! I'm 14 and would just like to keep a couple incase, (Buy a couple in the future, when I've been out with my GF for a while)

[Antares]

Diaphrams? Whats that? Theres also spermacide, that any good? (For the Females)

Also on the condom note, how do I know which size to buy and how would I get any?! I'm 14 and would just like to keep a couple incase, (Buy a couple in the future, when I've been out with my GF for a while)

Spermacide may help to avoid pregnancy but it doesn't help against STDs. Condoms do ;)

I have a pic to describe a diaphram for you.

https://www.clarian.org/ADAM/doc/graphics/images/en/17049.jpg


Condoms are generally one size fits all...generally. You can be a showoff and buy the large magnum (which is for larger than average penises) or get a smaller one but if you go to the store, just get the one you see the most of :P It doesn't have a specific size scale.

Yea, just buy some and keep it in your wallet :P

[Wayvrn]

Holy s**t! I was eating! Hahahaha, didnt really stop Me to be honest, was just a bit shocked for a diagram! :P

If You keep them in Your wallet they can get weak and has a increased chance of breaking during sex.

So condom size doesnt matter? All condoms fit al pensies? Then why not just have ALL condoms the one size?

[Antares]

Holy s**t! I was eating! Hahahaha, didnt really stop Me to be honest, was just a bit shocked for a diagram! :P

If You keep them in Your wallet they can get weak and has a increased chance of breaking during sex.

So condom size doesnt matter? All condoms fit al pensies? Then why not just have ALL condoms the one size?

You can keep them in your wallet, just make sure its in a place that doesn't fold. For instance if you had a 2 fold wallet you just keep it on one side of the wallet. If you had a three fold wallet then you should make sure its at a place that is all the way to the side.
As for breaking, they are pretty durable, just make sure you don't use it past the expiration date (printed on back)

Condom size generally doesnt matter unless you have like a huge horse cock thats 10 inches long and 7 inches in girth. lol
Condoms are stretchable and generally one size fits all.

[Wayvrn]

Oh sweet, both good info! ^_^ Thanks, do Men prefere without condom on? And if You dont have a condom, whats the chances of the Female getting pregnant anyways? Also, cant You just cum ON Her, not in?

[digzchickz]

Oh sweet, both good info! ^_^ Thanks, do Men prefere without condom on? And if You dont have a condom, whats the chances of the Female getting pregnant anyways? Also, cant You just cum ON Her, not in?
Well, without a condom is definitely better, but using a condom is better than not getting sex at all. lol But yea, you can cum on her as long as you don't get any around her vagina, because cum on the outside of the vagina can still let sperm in. As for pregnancy chances, don't quote me, but I think that with normal fertility levels, if you get a girl when she is at peak fertility right before/during ovulation the chance can be like 25% or so, which is kinda high.

[Antares]

Men, I would say that they prefer without a condom but they mostly use condoms so often (especially before marriage and before a solid relationship) that they don't really care after a while...that's what I would guess.

The chance is basically 80% if you cum IN her. If you cum ON her remember that in your precum there could be some live sperm floating around in it. So thats a bad idea. To be on the safe side, use a condom when you insert :D

[Wayvrn]

I also heard that pre-cum can get Her pergnant, ouch! That sneaky bit of fluid can get Her pregnant.

[Antares]

I also heard that pre-cum can get Her pergnant, ouch! That sneaky bit of fluid can get Her pregnant.


Yep, I think thats where a lot of the "accidents" happen.

lol

"SHIT! I'm pregnant!"
"But I pulled out..."

[Wayvrn]

Yea, daymn....so how would I actually get condoms? Is there an age? And I dont think I wanna get condoms from a store if its legal for My age (14, 15 soonish), it would be embarrasing.

And what kind of condom(s) Women like? Ribbed, flavoured, original etc?

[Antares]

Yea, daymn....so how would I actually get condoms? Is there an age? And I dont think I wanna get condoms from a store if its legal for My age (14, 15 soonish), it would be embarrasing.

And what kind of condom(s) Women like? Ribbed, flavoured, original etc?

As far as I know, there is no age in Australia. So you can just go to the store or maybe a gas station (not sure much about down there) and go pick a few up. If you are really nervous about buying something then you should just find a place with a self-checkout. Umm, but cashiers shouldn't do anything to you.

I think original is safe for your first time/girlfriend :P
Then maybe when you get more experienced in a relationship you can try "new things" :P

[Wayvrn]

Hahaha You make Me laugh Man ^_^

Whats a Self-Checkout?

[Antares]

Hahaha You make Me laugh Man ^_^

Whats a Self-Checkout?

Self-checkout is kinda like...

when you go to the grocery store, instead of having a cashier behind a desk ring up your stuff, you do it yourself...im not sure...

like this lady:
http://www.experientia.com/blog/uploads/self_checkout.jpg

[Wayvrn]

Alright, I'll just get a packet and let someone scan it, per usual, sure I'll get a weird look, meh.

[byee]

Quick answers..

1) There are other forms of birth control, but only condoms protect from STI's. Remember if your g/f is having sex with you, she's likely had it with other guys, too. More partners = greater risk. What feels better is irrelevant.

2) All condoms are really the same. Basic diff is lubed or not, receptacle end or not. It's a matter pf preference, try both on yourself and see which you like better. Read amd follow the directions. Don't bother with 'ribbed' flavored, or 'ultra', and you do not need the ginormous size, 'regular' is fine.

3) For safety's sake, you shouldn't let any penis fluid on her body. Once you start to do things like this, you increase the chance of some of it accidentally spilling on the vahinal opening, increasing the risk for pregnancy.

4) Always store a condom in a cool, dry place. NOT your wallet, the glove compartment of the car, or any place that could weaken it from exposure to heat.

[Jordan...14]

why not go buy one from the toilets of a mcdonalds or your local restaraunt, and im pretty sure that ANYONE no matter what age can buy condoms, or so im told, ive never tried tbh

[digzchickz]

why not go buy one from the toilets of a mcdonalds or your local restaraunt, and im pretty sure that ANYONE no matter what age can buy condoms, or so im told, ive never tried tbh
THe problem is that those condoms from a machine are usually cheap, break easier, and can be really old/brittle sometimes, they are ok for guys that like wanking with them on, but not great for protection.

[Skeln]

I agree. Just buy one. Don't woory about the odd looks, they should mind their own business. At least they'll know you're practicing safe sex. Cumming on her doesn't necessarely work. While having sex you pre-cum which has a chance of getting her pregnant. Without a condem their is a high chance of getting her pregnant. comdems are the best method, end of story.

[notsure101]

Theres always female condoms but there is no other safe way then a condom