So for lent

[greenwind]

I gave up Jacking off

it is now day 4 and i am losing my mind.

i've been trying to get someone to lend me a helping hand but so far no takers.lol

what do you guys think...

should i just give in or try as hard as i can to stick with it(and find help.)

i figured that if i don't find "help" by next weekend i'm just going to jak off

what do you guys think?

[irishdude695]

I tried that to I didn't last until Thursday night and I started on Tuesday lol. You really should try to stick it out in my opinion. It shows that you know how to demonstrate self-confidence.

And the BEST plus is: on Easter or how ever long you last, you' will have a giant orgasm and cum everywhere. :) That would be the main reason i would do it.

Well which ever reason you do it for, it will probably be a good thing in the end.

[staying_alive]

Dude stick with it! Just imagine how awesome Easter is gonna be!

*No mom i'll pass on the easter-egg hunt...i'll be in my room. Don't come in for any reason*

[Eskie Dog]

I'm doing the same thing. You're right it's hard

[QuickQuart]

Well maybe it's just cuz I'm not religious, but I wudnt give up masturbation for 40 days. I know people can be very devoted to their religion, but I don't think u shud deny urself a human urge. That's just the viewpoint of a nonreligious person.

But yeah Easter will be pretty awesome for ya. =]

[kickasskaratedude]

I am doing that right now to and I am like going to fricken explode

[greenwind]

lol,dude i used to jerk off like daily
i'm like constantly hard now..

...its getting kinda hard to resist.

can anyone think of any loop holes ?

[Archer600]

k good for u guys but Sundays aren't part of lent or it would be morenthan 40 days and a few other reasons I can't remmber so u can jack off then if u need to

[Skeln]

You know, you should come to my church. When the father was supposed to sprinkle holy water on everyone, well instead he pulled out a super soaker and sprayed everyone! Also, he is just hilarious. He was aying how the most comon ages for children to sin is between 19 and 23, and he was saying "why are we teaching all these little kids about asking for forgiveness? They haven't even sinned yet!" Helps me out with my goal knowing that I have something to think and talk about instead of mastrubating. So try doing something different in your life, do something that is easy for you to remember, think about, and you can share wit with everyone you know.

[MykeSoBe]

Dude you got so much courage, I'm surprised! From the day before Ash Wednesday, I stopped masturbating. I was able to last ... until Saturday night! I was just lying in bed trying to get a decent sleep for the fourth night of Lent, of course w/o masturbating. Of course, I sleep in nothing but my boxers, and so "it" kept on "peeking" through the "keyhole," which gets very annoying. I kept on "stuffing" it back in, but that wouldn't help. And of course, I'm used to masturbating every night before I sleep, so I couldn't think of anything else except that. I figured, "Eh, 10-20 strokes, that's it. Nothing that will end in orgasm." Well, I got a bit carried away, after doing the above, 4 times, using the "stop-and-go" method. As a consequence, I have to wait 4 days after Good Friday to really be able to do it again.

PS What holiday is the end of Lent, Easter or Good Friday?

[notsure101]

Ok well the thing is you can give up one thing per day my Sister said at school so try that

[Archer600]

Ok well the thing is you can give up one thing per day my Sister said at school so try that
No u can't who told her that

[greenwind]

k good for u guys but Sundays aren't part of lent or it would be morenthan 40 days and a few other reasons I can't remmber so u can jack off then if u need to

what who said that??

well i wanted to hold out all the way you hardcore and stuff.


lol

ok so update on how its going for me.

so far this has happen'd twice to me

so today i took a leak and when i was done i walked to my room and i had a funny feeling in my pants so i threw them off and a river(over exaggerating) of i think precum(might have been cum not sure) flowed out.....wondering...is that supposed to happen?

[Skuzzy]

The only reason I could think to stop is to build up semen

[Prince_of_Peace]

I have not jacked of for 8 days now. Yes that is more than a week. My secret is to stop thinking about sex. Do not go to pornographic website. If you keep your mind off the gutter, you will not be tempted. IT IS POSSIBLE. I might get a massive boner in the morning when I wake up...the secret is DO NOT TOUCH IT. That is why I wear bikini briefs because it seems I will constatly have a semi boner at school. Good luck everyone and wish me luck. The secret is do not think about sex. If you fail, then do not loose hope.

[Antares]

If you really believe in god then you would quit.
Simple.


I think thats what lent is about...something like that.
OH no!
You need to sacrafice for him because he sacraficed for you. So, if you really believe in that...keep your hands off.

[Prince_of_Peace]

I wont say I will never mastebate, but I sure am trying not to.

[mathew911]

Go on with it. I had a friend who mannaged to do that. He told me had jacked like 7 times the day after the lent was over. But he did it. Try to avoid situations that can get you arroused.

[delete.please]

I tried that in seventh grade. It was so hard (pun intended). If you're looking for loopholes you could try to manipulate the definition of masturbation, but in reality, deep inside, you know what you're doing. I don't remember if I made it through, but I remember trying really hard.

That's why I gave up sarcasm this year.

[Sceneboy612]

well good luck on going until lent... but you should build it up, and be excessively horny on easter... and as for the finding help thing, if you have someone, go for it, but if you dont, you could ruin the relationship with the person if you try to hard to get their "help"

[nick]

If you want to give it up for Lent then thats up to you, personally I dont see the point or benefit. A caring church shouldn't, in my opinion, expect anyone to do that sort of thing. You recon all the adults in your church will give up sex for Lent?

If you were to get a friend to "help you out" that doesnt seen any different to me to doing it yourself.

[bigdog16]

i am also "holding out" until easter and i have wanted to alot and its hard not to nut i started a day late and im gona end a day late so when i do jack off itll be great and i wont have to feel bad for doing it on easter haha

[willy1213]

im trying to give it up too and man is it hard

[southieRy94]

willy nice pun^, idk if it was intended but funny.lol
But yea, my friends started talking about it and they were saying they haven't jacked off in like 3 months, and I'm sitting there saying in my head "how the hell do they do it?"
Then they ask me so I told them like 2 weeks ago(lying cuz I had earlier that day)lol
But good luck, u'll prob need it

[adam1995]

i think u made a bad decision ;)

[HidekiErikku]

The only reason I could think to stop is to build up semen

:yawn:
This is totally and COMPLETELY WRONG.
Seamen only lives for 3 days before they die out in the Testes. And outside of th ebody they live for only 1 day. Building up seamen only works in incraments of 3.

Just so you know, you should keep it up. It shows self discipline. xD

[Prince_of_Peace]

13 days without masterbation....no sweat. Its all a matter of self control. You and I know that we will get a boner everyday....but just keep your mind off sex and you will not struggle.

[bigdog16]

what ive been doing lately is when im home alone and i get a boner i just let it do its own thing really i dont touch it and i sqeez my legs a lil bit and it feels good .... granted its not the same but then i just let go and dont think about it

[Dale]

I believe you should masturbate often, this way stops you from doing something you may regret.

[roof]

Well maybe it's just cuz I'm not religious, but I wudnt give up masturbation for 40 days. I know people can be very devoted to their religion, but I don't think u shud deny urself a human urge. That's just the viewpoint of a nonreligious person.

But yeah Easter will be pretty awesome for ya. =]

I'm the same. It's too natural a thing to give up. If I were you I'd give up soda or caffeine - something a lot easier and not a necessarily natural urge.

EDIT: Plus, your orgasm won't be that big since if it's 40 days or whatever you're GOING TO have a wet dream during that period at least once if not more.

[Cristiann123]

ya i haven't j/o since Feb 25!!!
so ya. I'm waiting for Easter just like everyone, that way i have the biggest orgasm and everything. And as a bonus, my fam is going to conneticut for easter. my pastor has like a mansion in ct and invites everbody from the church for the whole day. and i have so many porn websites memorized. so ya. a whole day being nude through the house, my gay friend coming over, (he says hes bi) so ya.
:inappropriate::inappropriate::inappropriate::inappropriate::inappropriate: :inappropriate::inappropriate::inappropriate::inappropriate::inappropriate:

[wavey]

haha i couldnt do it. but i have had to be careful not to be caught so i;v ehad like 3 - 5 days and i'm DIEING FOR A J/o tomorrow when i'mo n hte dorm i might have a wank :)

[marktheman]

I would NEVER give that up for lent cuz i know I couldn't make it.
But you said you were looking for a friend to help out. You mean that wouldn't count?
Maybe I WOULD give it up then cuz I know my friend would help me.