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crankit70
March 1st, 2009, 12:48 AM
:what:my best friend once asked me to masturbate with him but i said no he is not gay and nor am i but he is now in another state and is coming up here soon and i think that i wanna do it now but i dont now what to do:confused:
so if you could share with me what i should fo to ask him about it and if it happpend what should i do :what:
QuickQuart
March 1st, 2009, 01:00 AM
well if u want to u cud ask him or say that U've changed ur mind if his offer still stands. It really depends on how comfortable u are around him.
crankit70
March 1st, 2009, 01:12 AM
well i am comfortable around him and all we have been best friends since kindergaten but like i dont know how to approach it like i cant just say as soon as he walks in lets masturbate really can i:what:
IAMWILL
March 1st, 2009, 02:49 AM
SWoooooshhhh *sweeping in on a flying carpet*
Okay well first off asking how to ask people to masturbate is against the rules, so this thread will get locked and there shouldn't be any good responses. Otherwise, I can't help you on this.
nick
March 1st, 2009, 04:30 AM
I think that the fact that he's asked you before makes it a lot easier for you to ask him now. Obviously not the minute he walks in, but if the right moment comes just ask he he still wants to do it. There's nothing gay about it, just two boys having fun
QuickQuart
March 1st, 2009, 09:45 AM
SWoooooshhhh *sweeping in on a flying carpet*
Okay well first off asking how to ask people to masturbate is against the rules, so this thread will get locked and there shouldn't be any good responses. Otherwise, I can't help you on this.
ohh yeah...that is against the rules. whoops. ;)
btw you dont have come in on a flying carpet...you can just walk or drive like any normal person...
Andy
March 1st, 2009, 10:54 AM
I think I might have missed something about the flying carpet here....well if you want to masturbate with your friend, then do it. If he was the one who suggested it in the first place then its not like he is going to mind.
On the other hand is it really sich a good thing to do? What benefit will it give you apart from a quick bit of sexual gratification. You run all sorts of risks of being found out (whihc I am assuming you don't want) and what if he IS gay and develops feelings for you that you can't return. This sort of thing (in my opinion) is just one massive slippery slope and you probably shouldn't get involved in it.
Antares
March 1st, 2009, 12:09 PM
Well if he asked first, and you want to do it. Just wait until he sleeps over or you guys are alone together and just say "I have been thinking about what you ask and I guess it's okay if we do it" and then things should take flight from there.
datbaseballboy24
March 1st, 2009, 05:17 PM
yea, if he still feals the same way, go for it :)
Midasman
March 1st, 2009, 05:21 PM
i agree if he asked u then u should make the move. whats the worst thing that could happen??
Franz Duck
March 1st, 2009, 05:30 PM
:what:my best friend once asked me to masturbate with him but i said no he is not gay and nor am i but he is now in another state and is coming up here soon and i think that i wanna do it now but i dont now what to do:confused:
so if you could share with me what i should fo to ask him about it and if it happpend what should i do :what:
Just because you masturbate with him doesn't mean your gay, it's if your attracted to him.
I wouldn't suggest masturbating w/ a friend, it can be awkward.
alpha123
March 1st, 2009, 06:40 PM
Just wait till you are comfortable and suggest it, I bet he is thinking the same and wants to ask you again..... you may have nothing to worry about. Enjoy!!
Skeln
March 1st, 2009, 06:45 PM
Yes, it's true that it can cause some problems. I wouldn't suggest it in the middle of daylight unless the two of you are alone in the house or you can hear someone comming from a distance. Best timke is at night...that's my opinion. If you are confortable and if you feel he's comfortable then just ask. Don't pressure him into it. If he doesn't want to then drop the subject.
Oblivion
March 1st, 2009, 06:48 PM
5) The only sexual questions permitted, are sex-ed questions. Don't ask for techniques or ways to masturbate or have sex. Don't ask questions about how to masturbate with friends. In addition, do not post stories about sex or masturbation.
Sorry. Locked.
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