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Destiny&Desire
February 28th, 2009, 11:51 AM
And I hope I can stick to it.

I'm sick of constantly worrying about my arm ever since I starting SH-ing again a few weeks ago, and I'd rather be without a guilty conscious when I go clothes/t-shirt shopping with my friends.

I'm going to see a show in a few weeks which I really can't wait for (I cut the main actor's name into my arm, not good.), and I want to be able to wear the t-shirt which I bought at the show last time I went without worrying about the cuts on my arm, because I don't want my sister to see them (she's going with me), so I need to promise myself that I can stop.

And I'm going to visit my friend in London a few days after for her birthday, and the last thing I want to do is ruin her birthday with whatever rubbish is on my arm.

I need to stop, for a few weeks at least. No compromise, no nothing. Just clean arms is all I need.

theOperaGhost
February 28th, 2009, 12:57 PM
I hope you stop for good! Good luck. :)

Moved to Cutting and SH.

Triceratops
February 28th, 2009, 03:00 PM
This is so good!
I really hope you achieve this :)
Good luck <3

Sapphire
February 28th, 2009, 04:13 PM
Good on you for finding some motivation to stop! :D

Have a look at the sticky in this forum and at other threads for ideas on things you can do when the urges strike.

Project Delta
March 26th, 2009, 08:41 AM
Just to ask. Did you actually end up succeeding? I hope you did!!:D

Destiny&Desire
March 26th, 2009, 04:12 PM
I had a major slip up recently, but I'm trying not to.

I hope that the end of this school term/break/whatever reason school is finishing tomorrow (lol) will give me time to just start afresh and try and make things the way they used to be.

I'd like to think that I've stopped, but I can't be sure yet.

Thanks for the support, everyone =]
x x x

TigerLily
March 26th, 2009, 04:29 PM
Good luck Georgia, you can do this :)

Project Delta
March 26th, 2009, 04:52 PM
keep it up!! you can do it!! :)

RaeNose
March 28th, 2009, 10:15 PM
Dang it! You totally reminded me! I really must stop now. Going to see Wicked in May... Hope my scars heal by then. Thanks for the reminder.

RaeNose
March 28th, 2009, 10:16 PM
Oh, btw, what shoe are you going to? Anything good? :)

Destiny&Desire
March 29th, 2009, 02:47 PM
Sorry if I'm like... "bumping" this [slightly old] thread by replying to the question.

I saw the show last week - it was like a circus/freakshow thing with all acrobats and stuff =]

RaeNose
March 29th, 2009, 04:50 PM
That's cool. :) Sounds like a lot of fun.

bunsy
April 7th, 2009, 04:05 AM
sounds really cool - if you want to totally quit, go to more shows more motivation less scars and a quick tip **bio-oil** it fades scars and savlon cream for the clean healing of cuts should you happen to do it again, which you wont because your fabulous and can do this :)
bunsy x

Destiny&Desire
April 7th, 2009, 03:32 PM
Gone without it for half a month now... =]

RaeNose
April 8th, 2009, 12:56 PM
Heck yes! Keep going, we're all rooting for you! :)

Destiny&Desire
April 13th, 2009, 05:31 PM
It kinda feels good to know that people have actually replied to this... =]

I nearly messed up last night (it was like 2am and I had no distractions), but I didn't =]

Sorry if I'm bumping this thread or anything by replying =p
x x x

Destiny&Desire
April 14th, 2009, 05:42 PM
Relapsed. =\

RaeNose
April 14th, 2009, 07:14 PM
oh, hun. What happened?

NightFighter
April 14th, 2009, 07:52 PM
:( Aww man, you just gotta pick yourself up and try again.
Easier said than done i know, just try your best.
Take Care
x

katytruthteller
April 17th, 2009, 04:43 PM
hey great news hope u stopped and u can carry it thru its always good to have support nd motivation to stop :)

Destiny&Desire
April 17th, 2009, 06:41 PM
yeah, one slip up isn't gonna take me all the way back to step one =]

i don't mind if i do it again, just as long as i don't do it as often and, eventually, don't do it rarely/ever...
x x x

Project Delta
April 22nd, 2009, 03:28 PM
Yo Dude, you relapsed so what?
You can recover.
Part of the road to success is failiure and LEARNING from those mistakes so learn from it dude, and stop :) and we can be clean buddies coz i've stopped for 7 and a half weeks now :)

RaeNose
April 22nd, 2009, 07:41 PM
Yay! Congrats! I'm been clean for... maybe over a month? Last time I cut was sometime in March.
Keep fighting, hun, we all know you can beat this. :)