This Girl at school that I really like

[Wayvrn]

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[IAMWILL]

Well right now you have a great starting point for a relationship. If you have only known her for 2-3 weeks, and she already hangs out, chats, and laughs with you, she might like you as more than a friend. You are right about waiting, you can't just rush into relationships. There really is no time limit though of when you can ask her out. if you keep a strong relationship with her, the moment will come, and you'll reckonize it.

It's all about trust and fun. If you keep what you're doing up, I can easily see you with her.

[Malsector]

Well if you feel as though you want to be in a relationship, ask her out.
You don't need to make a big deal about it, infant that is sometimes a bad idea.
there is lots of different ways you just need to find the right one for her.

ps. my all time favorite is to throw it out there randomly (ie her:"wow that pizza i had for lunch was really good" you: Speaking of pizza, will you go out with me?" or something similar. This will make her laugh which is a great idea. Most girls love guys that can make them laugh.)

[Wayvrn]

I dont get that Pizza one :|

"Speaking of Pizza, will You go out with Me?" - What?

You do know that asking someone to go out with You means if You want to be a couple.

[Antares]

Well, just be yourself!
Just talk to her more, keep being friendly, make an effort to say hi every chance you get (but not in an annoying way) and nature should take it's course.
It would be a good idea to ask her out at maybe a month or a month and a half and its a few simple words "Hey, do you wanna go see a movie with me or something?" and then you should get an answer. Good luck

[Wayvrn]

Alright, sounds good Man, during the day of going to the movies with Her if She does go with Me, when should I ask Her to go out with Me?

[Gumleaf]

Alright, sounds good Man, during the day of going to the movies with Her if She does go with Me, when should I ask Her to go out with Me?

just take one step at a time. see how the movies go, don't jump tpp far ahead of yourself. if the movies go well, then perhaps ask her out, but if things aren't completely right for whatever reason, then maybe just leave it for a while. bottom line is not to rush into anything.

[Wayvrn]

Yer I know but, at what point? When the movies end? During the movie? Etc.

[ILOVEYOU]

well, dude, you gotta tell her, its not hard, its either black or white, yes or no, nothing else, but, if you talk to her everyday and you laugh together, it means good. but i say, you better wait one more week for getting closer to her, talk about Love and such things with her, like you know some people that truly love together and go out, drink together, anything like that. or you can give her a Romantic movie, and tell her "see it, its my favorite movie, i hope you like it too", then she WILL imagine you as the boy in the movie, and she would get the same feeling about you, then there wont be any NO answer about a date. Good Luck.

[HikaruTheHunter]

Wait for a while. I made that mistake with my ex. I asked her out and I met her probably two or maybe a week after I arrived at that school. Things were great in the beginning, but after that, I had to break up with her. So waiting is opportune in this situation

[Wayvrn]

Yer, about a month from now if its still all good, I'll ask Her to the movies and ask Her then aye? :P

Oh, and at what point should I ask Her out?

Altho, it would be awesome if She asked Me out! ^_^

[ILOVEYOU]

Good, Go For It

[Wayvrn]

*sighs* Yet again I gotta ask :P

At what point should I ask Her out?

[HOLEinyoursoul]

ok so you've got the right idea. But also go see movies even when you're trying to build a friendship. It could give you two stuff to talk about. Go to the mall a lot, invite her over, go over to her house. All stuff like that and you'll be good.
As for asking her out... actually i have taken every one of my dates to the movies to ask them out... I once saw Saw 5 with a girl, asked her out, and now we're together. We have been together since october...25 and it's march 5. Anyway, expose her to media you like and let her show you what she likes. GOOD LUCK!!!
Oh and wait like... two or threee months. Trust me, if the friendship thing goes well time will pass by really fast

[ILOVEYOU]

oh sorry, when she sayd "what a great movie" or something, you gotta be carefull, when she sayd that, you gotta ask, how you think about that boy (for example) or their relationship in the movie (as long as that was a Very romantic movie). she would say Great, and then you gotta say something which make her want to feel what the girl in the movie did. if you got what i mean.
you gotta make her think, She is the girl in the movie and You are the boy, make her Imagine sleeping with you, making out with you, and such things, cuddle, and ...
Good luck. PM me if you need any futher details :)

[Wayvrn]

Make Her feel like the Girl in the movie? Sorry, please explain?

EDIT: We (Me and Her) were talking about some other Girl and Boy (Friends), that Their rushing into a relationship and Gemma dun want that and after a little chat We both agree that rushing into relationships is very bad, so if We both are thinking about starting one, We both know that We'll take it slow, secretly ;)

[ILOVEYOU]

Nice "note".
i meant, make her feel, She is the girl in the movie, i dont know how to explain this but, you gotta do it. like when you are watching a porn video, you may imagine yourself doin that, you need to make her imagine herself as the girl in the movie. well?

[Wayvrn]

By doing/saying....? (sorry for short post Peeps)

[ILOVEYOU]

you can tell her how much you like their relationship in the movie, and you gotta say her some hot scenes, like kissing, or something, SMS her the time of the kissing, say "see this scene, i love it" or some kind, lol. Good Luck

[Wayvrn]

Thats kinda...weird and sus Dude. Sure I'd say if they (a couple in the movie) did something, I'd say "Aw thats cute" etc, but not "Oooo I liked that kiss in that movie!" thats sus.

[ILOVEYOU]

yeah, sure, you gotta say anything you Like, that was just an example. :D

[upright_citizen]

take your time and build a solid friendship first before jumping into a relationship with her.
take the time to get to know her, learn her favorite things to do, favorite shows, music/bands, color, foods, etc
its always best to learn everything about a person first before getting into a relationship with them. because for all you know you could both be complete total opposites which could cause a lot of disagreements later on and problems resulting in the relationship quickly failing.

[Haru Taki]

hmmm...interesting.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

just get into what she likes. talk to her about it. Either watch scary or romantic movies. Those will get you two closer. But don't over do it. Also get some good music. find out what she likes. Girls like it when we like what they like, and if you do not like her stuff then try to introduce yours. Go on walks and stuff. Ride bikes, go to a pond or something if you live near one... go to town. Anything where you can have a bit of freedom. Have fun and don't sweat it

[ILOVEYOU]

great ways. it will be useful for me too. Thanks :)

[Wayvrn]

Ok, the other night She asked if I liked Her, I was a bit suprised/shocked but yet relieved. I said, Ye-kinda, for as known as I've known You (not that long, about a month now) I've enjoyed and liked it. And She then said I was cute and what not and She said that She liked Me a little bit! ^_^

So, so far so good :) BUT! She is moving here (Shes new to this area and school) and theres a couple other Guys from Her old school that like Her so, I'm just ganna give Her some time and space. She also asked if I liked Her when I as talking to Her heaps about other Guys (She knows them, I dont) and I guess She was suprised I was acting like an Idiot and trying to help Her.