kissing problem.

[justme21]

Well im going out with this girl and we have been going out for 1 month and today right after school i told if she should want to kiss and she said no and went.What heppen usualy i kiss her on the cheek and dont say nothing but i dont know?

[Jordan...14]

maybe you should make the move on her? or ask her why she didnt want to kiss you?

[justme21]

i did make a move to her i whispered in her ear and just said no

[Jordan...14]

it seems like shes not that interested in you, without being mean im sorry to say

[justme21]

idk ill just give another try at it ill just call her tonight to get my mind out of it

[IAMWILL]

She is probably just a little uncomfortable right now with it. Don't make another move, that's showing that your "desperate". Just wait. If she likes you and you continue to go out, she will become more comfortable with you, and therefore probably will kiss you. If you want to talk to her about it, just sit her down and honestly ask. Don't make a big deal out of it though. Hope I helped!

[MidnightHorizon]

don't rush it, let her warm up to the fact that shes with you. don't push the topic unless you get the hint shes ready, otherwise she will find u annoying

[justme21]

well i can tell she is not mad at me cause i called her last night and we talked on the phone for about 3 hours but its kinda hard to find out when the best moment is for both us cause i cant read her mind

[Jordan...14]

ask her out on a date, sometimes the end when your walking her to her house is a good time

[justme21]

ask her out on a date, sometimes the end when your walking her to her house is a good time

im 14 and i now were she lives and we dont live anywere near a 30 min walk and i live in a town full of gangs thats y my parents dont like me walking out of the house

[Jordan...14]

Hmm .. thats a toughy. I'll be honest Ive had no experience in this before so Im kinda just shooting point blank - so to speak - get the bus together or walk home from school or go to an after school club with her or something

[justme21]

well we do have track practice together but we live like a 15 minute drive from our school and i live like a 1 hour walk to her house

[Jordan...14]

well you could always have a chat to her before or after or whatever just sit and talk and see what happens

[justme21]

man i never get chance to sit and talk when i do its like for maybe 3 mins but we do talk alot on the phone i think need to spend more time with her

[Jordan...14]

I agree with that