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Jordan...14
February 27th, 2009, 02:36 PM
Ok im not too sure what to do here. Heres the thing...
Im in my third year of high school and I've known this girl since first year. I have recently become really attracted to her and now that I sit beside her in alot of lessons its great, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to jeopardise my friendship but I want to be with her, dilema much.
Gumleaf
February 27th, 2009, 05:30 PM
well, you need to think about this carefully. as you have said yourself, taking a chance like asking her out could throw your friendship in the air. you just need to consider whether its worth taking the risk or is it better to just stay friends? sometimes good friendships can be more worthwhile then a relationship with friends anyways.
MidnightHorizon
February 27th, 2009, 05:48 PM
well, you need to think about this carefully. as you have said yourself, taking a chance like asking her out could throw your friendship in the air. you just need to consider whether its worth taking the risk or is it better to just stay friends? sometimes good friendships can be more worthwhile then a relationship with friends anyways.
well said Gumleaf :)
i think you shouldn't ask her out yet. just be patient and make sure you're both ready when you do. For now just be a good friend to her, its not worth the risk. Most relationships at your age don't last. So IMO it'd be better to just sustain the relationship you have now
Jordan...14
February 28th, 2009, 12:30 PM
Yeah I think you are right but if I knew she liked me how i liekd her what wold your opinion of that be (im not saying i do, just out of curiousity)
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