Bigest Fear

[Freshprince]

My bigest fear of getting a b/j or h/j or havon sex
is cumming to quick how can i prevent this and last long?

[adam dockery]

think about something else.

[Franz Duck]

Think about something else, masturbate more, after puberty you usually ejac at a later time.

[byee]

The answer to your question is that the easiest way to enjoy and prolong sexual contact is to NOT be nervous. And the easiest way to achieve that is to be relaxed with your partner, which usually involves being in a relationship with them and knowing them well enough to not be nervous in the first place.

If you're worried about this, its a pretty good sign you're not there just yet.

[Lifeguard18]

you could try the stop and wait process.

[nick]

My bigest fear of getting a b/j or h/j or havon sex
is cumming to quick how can i prevent this and last long?
You can't prevent it. Some guys will get so excited when they have their first sexual experience that they will cum very quickly. Fact of life. If this happens it will be embarassing but it will get better with time and more experience.

Its not like this for everyone, in fact the opposite may be true, it can be quite difficult to cum if you're too worried and not relaxed.

So the only way to avoid possible embarassment is never to have any kind of sex. Not an option for most of us.

Two pieces of more positive advice I would give:-

forget all the crap about thinking about cabbage or something else you really dont like. This is just crap, noone getting blowed or humping away can think about cabbage
try to forget about you own pleasure and devote yourself to pleasuring your partner. This is it, this is the key. If your not sure you can last long make sure you dont need to!

[JMI6]

well you can get certain lubes and creams that help decrease the length of time that it takes to cum.

[jasinbris]

when you first start having sex you will most likely always cum very quickly, it is because you are young and full of hormones and all your little boy wants to do is shoot its load, it's natural and a biological aspect that ensures we can reproduce. Have you noticed how quick animals can cum?

But we, as humans, use our sexual behaviours differently, and as we mature we learn to have longer and better sex for the enjoyment factor. So after you have a few good roots, you will notice that you can go longer, and don't worry, girls know that we cant help it if we shoot early. Until you get more experience to last longer, you should make sure to pleasure the girl for a long time until she is close, with oral or kissing/licking sensual parts all over body, this will get you hard and horny as well, and then when she's all wet and going wild, stick it in and make her cum, that way if you shoot early it wont matter - and if she cums before you its no drama either cos chicks still love it even after cumming.

[Mattyboi]

when ur bout to cum pintch ur cock under the haed 4 a sec it should stop u from cumming

[doktored]

If push comes to shove and you don't think you can last, there is a condom which has an anaesthetic on the inside so you can last longer. Durex Performa I believe it is called.

[TODAYisTHEday]

You can't be nervous never have sex with them unless you love them or you could be extremely nervous and it could be unpleasurable.

[The Joker]

Don't be nervous, basically, the pleasure is new to you, and you are getting way more than masturbation. Your penis will overload on this pleasure and you will probably cum really quickly. I read an autobiography where the guy said his first time lasted THIRTY seconds.