Fooling around with best friend

[Evan14]

My best friend (since we were 5) just got back from being overseas for almost a year (his mom was stationed on an assignment in Europe). When he left I'm pretty sure we both had just started puberty..

Anyway, we've always wrestled/horsed in our boxer briefs around since we were kids and thought nothing of it...so we started comparing how we've developed...underarm hair and hairy legs and we both are starting to get visible peach fuzz and happy trails, etc. So he gets me pinned and my junk pops out by accident as I try to get up, and of course I immediately get hard:eek:. I was sooo embarassed but instead, he asks if he can touch it, and I agree and he shows me his (huge) and we end up jacking off.

I thought, ok, this is one of those normal puberty things to try, so weeks pass and I'm over at his house getting something from the fridge, and he just walks up from behind ,turns me around and kisses me. Within 10 minutes we're both in his room naked, and I'm losing my oral virgininity.

Both of us agreed after that this was just one of those things to try, that it wasn't a big deal, etc, but I kind of think kissing and oral crosses the line. Part of me wants to stop because I don't want to lose my best friends, and I don't want to be gay, but part of me is waiting for the "next time" to happen. Don't know what to do!:what:

[nick]

It isn't necessarily gay, it may just have a lot to do with curiousity and opportunity. Lots of guys do this sort of thing. Other people will tell you not to risk spoiling a friendship, but if you are both happy with it, perhaps he can't wait for the next time either. Just go with what feels right for you.

[Ender]

Don't worry about what your friends think, if you like him, you like him. Who cares if you are gay, bi, or str8? I believe people like what they like. If you and him both had fun, you might be gay, or bi....but just go with what you are comfortable with.

[Jamesw]

how old are you now

[irishdude695]

Just do whatever makes you feel happy. Don't feel ashamed of what you like. Who knows he might be waiting for the next time too. If you truly enjoyed this, because you like him you might be gay or bisexual. But if you only enjoyed it because you were horny, just like all teenage boys, it might just be curiosity or just the hormones.

[lonelyboy15]

I am going through the same situation with my best friend. We messed around for the first time when we were drunk. The day after I was worried about tarnishing the friendship, afraid I could be gay, and wanting to mess around again.

The best thing for you to do is talk to your friend about it. I talked to my friend and we both talked about how we know we're straight but a little bi-curious at the moment. We talked about how we've always liked girls but always wondered what it'd be like. If anything it strengthened our friendship. We casually mess around on the weekends and it's no big deal.

You're probably not gay just curious. If you're going through puberty, all the raging hormones could be the cause of this. Don't worry. If you want the next time to happen then let him know how you feel and if the feelings mutual than there isn't really anything wrong with experimenting.

[datbaseballboy24]

wow, thats a deep situation, if you dont want to then just say no, if hes ur best friend hell understand

[Hezzy]

WOW thats all i can say, but if you want to do it again maybe ask but if he says no leave it at that dont push him into it.

[mathew911]

You may have crossed the line there. I think that oral is still experimenting, but kissing is a bit more personal. I think you can continue doing stuff with them, but don´t cross the line again. If oral is over the line for you don´t do that either. It is good to find some boarders in this stuff.

[Evan14]

Yeah...it's weird to think of kissing as crossing the line and oral as not...but it makes sense. Then again, one time I played spin the bottle where everyone regardless of gender had to kiss...but yeah not the same thing I guess lol.

[devilsheep]

Whats with all these gay adolescent fantasy stories which are very questionable lately.

[Gabriel Y.]

I hate to say that I cannot imagine any straight guy going that far... But idk. Why wouldnt you want to be gay? Honestly in todays world, the annoyances are exaggerated. Hell I wish I were you... If my best friend kissed me especially on a surprise like that, it would be the best day of my life. However your situation is probably different. My school is crazy, and the only civilized people in the school are the ones in the music department, me being one of them. 1/3 r gay, 1/3 are straight, the last 1/3 r girls. But dont take this as I know everything! Though im very sure Im gay, you never know! Also if I didnt tell someone, they would not think im gay much at all. If I kissed a guy in our school, people may call me gay, but those would be the immature people i dont care about. All in all, this may be experimenting. Honestly if your friend is gay and you turn out not to be, send him my way ;) Just promise you will be supporting no matter what ok? Also remember, we're all rooting for you no matter what happens *hug* talk 2 u soon!

[jgibbsd]

Don't worry about what your friends think, if you like him, you like him. Who cares if you are gay, bi, or str8? I believe people like what they like. If you and him both had fun, you might be gay, or bi....but just go with what you are comfortable with it !

[Haru Taki]

yeah...its ok from what i heard....

[Hollywood]

its totally not gay, it's what me and most other teenage guys do.
now the kissing may have been a little much, but everything else is cool
as long as u kno u r not gay, u arent so dont sweat it :)

[kniwtohynroh]

Since you dont wan to have sex with him, but yet you wan to.
Then tell him how you feel, tell him you dont want to do this anymore!
If he insisted very strongly to have sex with you, i suggest you better dont have it with him anymore.

if he understand your feelings and decided to stop having sex with you, you should also stop dont let your horny-ness decide for you. Be normal best friends again!

you know, seriously, i hope to have a gay friend like yours...
well, back to reality, hope he understands you!

[LKSora]

you're just lucky
i wanna do something like that also(i'm not gay)but i dunno what he wants