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Donkey
February 26th, 2009, 12:46 PM
A Leeds man who was told he was too fat to adopt has lost 19lbs in three weeks.

Damien Hall's 24.5-stone (156kg) bulk made him morbidly obese and Leeds City Council told him to slim before it could consider him for adoption.

After taking drastic action with his diet, Mr Hall says he is on his way to his goal weight and the council should allow the couple to start proceedings.

The council says it cannot happen until Mr Hall's body mass index (BMI) of 42 is reduced to 40.

Mr Hall, 37, and his wife Charlotte, 31, first told their story to BBC Radio 5 live's Victoria Derbyshire show six weeks ago.

Three weeks later, they both started a diet and even Mrs Hall, who did not need to lose weight to meet council rules, has lost a stone.

Mr Hall said: "It's not been easy but I'm chuffed. There is a little way to go yet but that's just what I have to do."

Despite losing the weight, Mr Hall's BMI has not reduced enough and he is aiming to lose the same amount again.

However, he said he wished the council would take his initial weight-loss efforts into account.

"Why can't we start the process now? It can take 18 months to a year.

"If social services are saying there aren't enough parents coming forward for adoption, then surely you would be wanting to support people through that?"

The letter the couple were originally sent by Leeds City Council, signed by a team manager and seen by the BBC, said: "I understand that you would like to begin the assessment as soon as possible and while appreciating your reasons for this, I consider it would be more appropriate to begin the assessment once Mr Hall's BMI is below 40."

The Department for Children, Schools and Families said it does not issue guidance on maximum weight for adopters to local authorities.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7912325.stm

Sapphire
February 26th, 2009, 01:29 PM
It's a good form of motivation for him and he should be proud of his achievements thus far.

But, I fail to see how anyone could stand to be as large as he was...Seriously!

Φρανκομβριτ
February 26th, 2009, 05:42 PM
The family should be able to start the adoption process on a probationary basis. If he lives up to his word, then there you go. If not, fuck him.

ShatteredWings
February 26th, 2009, 07:16 PM
Why does someone's weight haave to do with their parental ablitiy?

Φρανκομβριτ
February 26th, 2009, 07:51 PM
if you're that large, you're classified as dissabled. People who can't walk can't adopt because they can't take proper care of them. Same goes for ol' fatty here. You don't get to 24.5 stone easily either.

ShatteredWings
February 26th, 2009, 08:34 PM
343 pounds is disabled now?

Yeah.. I don't like that

If the guy was like 500, that's one thing, but there are people heavier who have their own kids, and can still go to work and walk

Zephyr
February 26th, 2009, 08:50 PM
More power to him!
I think that's awesome that he's changing his lifestyle to adopt a child.
I just hope he can keep up the good effort.

Φρανκομβριτ
February 26th, 2009, 09:19 PM
girl;456067']343 pounds is disabled now?

Yeah.. I don't like that

If the guy was like 500, that's one thing, but there are people heavier who have their own kids, and can still go to work and walk

See, that sort of thing doesn't happen in England.
They have their own kids, the government can't do anything about that, but considering giving a kid to a healthy family or an obease one, the choice is obvious. Yes they may still go to work and walk like people in wheelchairs, or hearing impaird, or blind, but the fact of the matter is, overall health is important when you are asking to care for a child.

Halibut
February 27th, 2009, 01:27 AM
good on him!!!!!!!

justme21
March 3rd, 2009, 04:26 PM
it would be kinda of nice if he would adopted a obese kid see he can live up to stayin like that cause he can be losing weight and also help hes adopted son or daughter lose weight

Camazotz
March 3rd, 2009, 05:07 PM
;455952']Why does someone's weight haave to do with their parental ablitiy?

;456067']343 pounds is disabled now?

Yeah.. I don't like that

If the guy was like 500, that's one thing, but there are people heavier who have their own kids, and can still go to work and walk

I totally agree, weight shouldn't determine how good of a parent you can be.

if you're that large, you're classified as dissabled. People who can't walk can't adopt because they can't take proper care of them. Same goes for ol' fatty here. You don't get to 24.5 stone easily either.

Although I see your point, I completely disagree.