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spartan117
February 24th, 2009, 11:36 PM
is it ok to be biesexual im worried that its not ok
Oblivion
February 24th, 2009, 11:40 PM
Moved to Teen Sexuality.

Bisexuality, like any sexuality, is perfectly OK.
AllThatIsLeft
February 24th, 2009, 11:40 PM
bisexuality is perfectly fine.
Mzor203
February 24th, 2009, 11:40 PM
Why would it not be okay to be bisexual? It doesn't matter what your sexuality is, it doesn't define anyone but who you feel attraction for.

Our sexuality is something we are allegedly born with, and while sometimes it's hard to really see what it is during puberty, in the end it'll end up one way or another.It's nothing to be ashamed of, it is who you are.

There will always bethose in life who may not accept that, but oh well. Their opinions don't really mean anything if they can't accept something that you can't change.

In short, yes, it's totally fine.
spartan117
February 24th, 2009, 11:45 PM
thanks every one i feel better about this now
Oblivion
February 24th, 2009, 11:46 PM
It would be best to understand however, there is often a prejudice against any other sexuality than straight. Not everyone will be so willing to say it's OK.
spartan117
February 24th, 2009, 11:48 PM
im not sure if im biesexual but you are helping me feel better about it
Buggahh
February 25th, 2009, 05:27 PM
well no its not, not if you arent comfortable with being bisexual. but if you are then yeah of course it is it took me a while to get used to it but now i have the most amazing girlfriend i could ever have wished for
nick
February 25th, 2009, 05:58 PM
Its perfectly OK, but not necessarily always as easy as being straight. But its not something you can control anyway. There are two things here,

how you feel about it yourself
how other people react around you

the first of these you can, too some extent, control. We all have to try to be comfortable with what we are, its not something we can choose. How other people react is beyond your control. These days most reasonable and intelligent young people will accept you for what you are. Trouble is not everyone's reasonable or intelligent, and many older people were just brought up in an age where people were less enlightened about these things.

This is why I'm a mixed up closet case myself I guess. I'm pretty comfortable with my own sexuality (bi) but find it makes life simpler if I keep it to myself. Hope you find an answer and are braver than me!
Sapphire
February 25th, 2009, 06:25 PM
Why wouldn't it be ok???
adam dockery
February 25th, 2009, 06:28 PM
no its not okay, u have a serious medical condition and could die.... no not really, being bi is fine, i am, and my life is great. So ya its perfectly fine
Lifeguard18
February 25th, 2009, 10:31 PM
Yeah it's ok but if ur worried about what other people think don't tell yet
Cloud
February 26th, 2009, 02:28 PM
why does everyone have such a problem with being gay or Bi i blame society for not easily accepting homosexuality. anyway dont worry bout it ur fine.
ECGBUnni
February 26th, 2009, 04:27 PM
it's perfectly normal.

im happily bi, well pansexual to be picky. I like *people* not...genders. lol. And the reality is that it doesnt really change your life. It's just another thing that makes you unique and special in the world.

Hopefully you'll end up embracing this part of you, just like everything else.

My best of luck to you :)
Sapphire
February 27th, 2009, 10:46 AM
how shud i come out to her mom??
It's not up to you to come out to her mum. Let your girlfriend come out to her mum when she feels ready to do so.
Jordan...14
February 27th, 2009, 03:26 PM
I think bisexuals are cool because they can have either or, male or female, or both..
Sapphire
February 27th, 2009, 08:12 PM
I think bisexuals are cool because they can have either or, male or female, or both..
LOL! That's like saying that you like ice cream and think it's cool because people can have strawberry or chocolate or both together...
MidnightHorizon
February 27th, 2009, 09:56 PM
LOL! That's like saying that you like ice cream and think it's cool because people can have strawberry or chocolate or both together...
maybe he likes ice cream :O
Jordan...14
February 28th, 2009, 07:10 AM
I do like ice cream...but thats not the point, well it kinda means the same thing but I still think bisexuals are cool
rette_mich
March 3rd, 2009, 07:12 PM
Of course hun, being bisexual is perfectly okay.
I mean you will always run into people who don't accept you the way you are, but truthfully you probably dont need friends like that.
I hope you can feel good about who you are.
Good luck :)
Haru Taki
March 5th, 2009, 08:17 PM
....how do you know ur gay or bi?
Ladysman
March 11th, 2009, 10:13 AM
No it's not bad but u may not be why do you think that? Maybe you can get better answers