Sex question...

[rette_mich]

This might sound a bit odd, but I was just wondering...
Is sex really that's good if you're a girl?
I mean guys seem to really love it, but is it really that good?:confused:
Just wondering...

[Rynokidd]

Ya know.. That's a fly good question. And one I don't know the true answer to but I can belo e it would hurt BUT feels good for them. I do know that the small peice of skin overthr vagin (clitoris) and stimulate a pleasurable feeling when rubbed. Hoped that helps by I'm definatly gonna google that

[byee]

Well, I suppose the answer lies in the relationship.

Girls have a sex drive, too, but it's different and more subtle than guys, who experience sexuality as rather urgent and intense. The girls who talk with me about this report that the best sex is when there's a lot of emotions between the two, when there's a sense of emotional fulfillment and satisfaction. it's that, thhe sense of emotional fulfillment, that heightens sexual responsiveness for girls.

That component, the emotional, also heightens it for guys, but it's not as necessary as it is for girls.

[AllThatIsLeft]

ummm... i think sex is great.
it either being emotional, or some hardcore sweaty sex.
it's all about giving yourself to what your feeling, and getting satisfaction from satisfying your partner,

though mindless sex can be quite an experience.

[Halibut]

it really depends on the guy. but usually the first time is not really that enjoyable for any gender!!! but after the fisrt time i think its amazing

[AllThatIsLeft]

it really depends on the guy. but usually the first time is not really that enjoyable for any gender!!! but after the fisrt time i think its amazing

not true. my first time felt awesome1!

lol XD

[BeautifulSilence]

I think a lot of factors can make the answer vary:

- The girl
- The partner
- The relationship
- The performance

...Meh. The list does go on. Although, the one thing that makes sex great for anyone is the orgasm - which can also happen through masturbation. So, why have sex and risk a STI or pregnancy when the only 100% prevention method is abstenance?

Personally, I'd rather have a sexless relationship than a fuck-buddy. In total honesty, I enjoy the emotional part more than the physically part.

[ackmedsgirl666]

what about sex with girls
does it feel the same as it does with guys??

[AllThatIsLeft]

doubt it. i mean, i have lesbian friends and they say it's much better, because a girl knows how girl works. so pleasure or orgasms is more guaranteed.

but there is a uniqueness of a penis that a girl cant not match. IMO.

[nick]

I don't know the ins and outs (no pun intended) of lesbian sex, but common sense says a tongue licking your clit doesn't feel the same as a dick thrusting. I'm certainly in no position to compare & contrast and am certainly not trying to say ones better than the other!

Some guys believe a boy-on-boy bj is better than when a girl blows you because another guy knows what you want. This is the same as AllThatIsLeft is saying above from a girls view point. It may be true, hope to find out!!! But couldn't a guy just tell a girl how to make it better or the other way round? Perhaps we all need to be less shy about these things.

[Sapphire]

It is different for almost everyone.

I find the best sex is sex that is had for fun - obviously having a safe and trusting relationship with the guy is important.

[MidnightHorizon]

I find sex pleasurable, just like a lot of other girls i know. Although there are somethings that can make it uncomfortable. Most of them have been stated.

Also sex for the first time may not be that pleasing for a girl since it usually results in the tearing of her hymen, which can be painful (or on some occassions may not hurt at all) and also you would probably be nervous, and a bit confused. These can make sex a little less enjoyable.

[AllThatIsLeft]

:eek: Xd sorry but i found that kinda funny

how xd