help, i dont no wat to do next

[adam dockery]

Ok so i was at my highschool watchin a lacroosse game, and i went to go get my stuff behind the stadium, my girlfriends best friend followed me and then started flirting with me. The next thing i know shes tryin to kiss me, it was like 3 seconds till i relized wat was happenin and i pulled away. But my girlfriend was walking by after her practice and saw it, Before i could say anything she ran away crying. I tried to go explain but she ran off again. So now my girlfriend that ive been with for 5 months, and i absolutly love her, thinks i was cheating on her. She wont give me a chance to explain, she wont answer a txt or a call. PLEASE someone help me, i dont no wat to do

[Oblivion]

Let her relax, and calm down.
Tomorrow when you see her at school, try to explain it.
Tell her that it was her friend's doing- she came over and started flirting, then tried to kiss you.

If that doesn't work (she avoids you, she ignores you, etc.) talk to her friend, and try to get her to tell the truth.
Ask her why she did it, and try to convince her that it wasn't right and get her to confess to your girlfriend.

[adam dockery]

good advice, but but the friend is tryin to tell my girlfriend i was all over her, and that i kissed her. And my girlfriend beleives her to

[Oblivion]

Hmm a similar thing happened to me once.
What I end up with, was: 'If she can't trust me over her friend, are we really that great together?'
Ask yourself that. If she doesn't trust you not to sneak around behind her back, how good of a relationship are you in?

[adam dockery]

i cant beleive she doesnt trust me! ive been with her for like 5 months, and we were best friends since we were 3 yrs old, we are very close. She didnt see the hole thing, she just saw the last like 2 seconds of it, so she has no idea wat really happened

[Cloudfire]

I agree with Shattered. If she would rather listen to her friend rather than consider you're side of the story, what's the point?