do you ever get the feeling....

[Cloud]

...that you want to smash your brother and sisters faces in. I HATE them they constantly abuse me because im the youngest and my parents dont do shit. Just because i havnt been out recently they assume and torment me saying i have no friends and i have no life and stupid things like that. Their a bunch of arseholes. Why wont they leave me alone for 5 minutes.

[NeedyTeen]

I TOTALLY AGREE!!!!
Although I am not the youngest,I'm almost. It's either the youngest gets more attention,OR the oldests get to go out and I'm not allowed because "I'm too young" even though I am NOT that young,almost 14 so I can go out places and not be a pain!! I hate those stupid excuses they use!
If you ever need to just vent your sibling feeling,I'm here for you sista!

[Cloud]

u mean brotha.
and i can go out its just weve had stuff goingon recently so ive chosen not to..

[NeedyTeen]

Oops,I should really check the gender HAHA!
Anyways, I know what you mean. My siblings and I are close in age so I don't get why we can't do stuff together. Even when it's not going out but sometimes I feel like grabbing a shoe and SMASHING it right in my little sisters face! She never respects me like she does to the older ones why NOT!!!?!?! She thinks because we are only 2 years and the others are 3 and more that I'm now older than her and I don't deserve respect? Seriously,annoying!
Just hang in there,and do what I do go to my room and shut the door and just lay on my bed until I am ready to see them again.

[Halibut]

no i havnt but i think you should get councilling

[byee]

Calum, tell your sibs I said they're real fools for not treating you better. They're missing out on a really nice guy.

I think it's your parent's responsibility to keep the peace at home, and if that's not happening, you have to come up with a way of impressing upon them how stressful and out of control their teasing is. A lot of times, I think parents either are unaware of what's going on, or they think it's 'normal' sib stuff, or they think you're somehow 'OK' with it. However, let's assume that if they were impressed that 'None of the above' was more accurate, then they'd step in and do something to stop it.

Talk calmly with them about how tormented you feel and that you need them to stop.

[Cloud]

Thanks sam ill try that

[Cindex]

The easiest way to get them to stop, is just not care. Just completely chill out one day, sit around, and listen.

"You have no friends!"
"So?"

Things like that, you know? Just stop caring, or pretend that you don't care. It's not fun to tease if you get no reaction.

As for the beating on you, I used to put tacks under my clothes. That wasn't a great idea. My brother would stab himself then get pissed off. If they hit you, don't even rub it or anything. Just take it. This is one thing I learned works in some situations from Jesus. (Even though I'm athiest XD)

Just chill out and let them wear themselves down. I've had that feeling too, and I still do with my little sisters and my older brother. They're pathetically annoying.

Good luck.

[Cloud]

Cindex i try ignoring it and just shrugging it off nad it doesnt work. As or the violence its kinda hard not to do anything when they slam your head against a wall or kik u in ur ribs so u cant breath

[adam dockery]

give ur brother a swift kick to the pants, that should at least keep him from moving for the next 30 min. (pants meaning nuts)




thats wat i do, if u cant win then cheat. :)

[Cloud]

dude shut up thats the worst idea ever for one hed kill me in my sleep for it and 2 retaliation makes stuff worse.

[adam dockery]

ok,, just a suggestion. guess you'll just have to tuff it out. maybe a punch to the face? chest? if u cant tell i like to solve violence with violence

[Skeln]

Well...ignore the insults. People insult to get a reaction, no reaction=no fun. If they steal stuff, don't bother with it as long as you know where your stuff is. If they beat you, well tell your parents. That's assault and if a neighbor saw that they could tell the police then they would be charged with assault. Not sure if that's what you want, if it is then yeah just call the police yourself. Nothing wrong with it, technically it's self defense. But yeah just tell your parents if all you want is for them to stop. And don't be ashamed if they beat you and leave out any details, they're older than you and their's more than one so it's understandable that they can beat you without you not standing a chance.

[OnlyByTheNight.]

Ya like they said- no reaction=no fun for them!

[postloveaffliction]

YES I AGREE. I get this feeling all the time. like, everyday! ftw. I'm not the youngest tho. I'm the oldest. But whenever me and my brothers have a fight, they always take their side. Whenever my brother/s would hit me, then I'd hit them back, my parents would be like, soo mad cause I hit them. But if I explain what happened and that they were the first ones who hit me, they would still take their side. Parents just cant understand. And even tho I try so hard to ignore their insults, I just cant. They keep on hitting me and annoys me more and more and mooooore. And if I try to annoy them and they like, get really pissed, they would start crying like freakin babies and run off to my mother. Then ofcourse, BLAME IT ON ME.

But I think the best way to avoid these kind of situations, is to just lock yourself in your room and blast music and just ignore them. Or maybe go out of the house once in awhile. And maybe if they try to annoy you, dont annoy them back. Just tell it off straight to your parents and theyll probably react. In a good way.