A little help

[alphus]

I'm not sure if i can ask this but hopefully its okay. I'm meeting with this girl in a few days and we've talked about stuff and we might have oral and hand sex. The only thing is I have quite a small penis and she is fairly developed.I'm worried that either she will laugh in my face or tell everyone about it. Also i've never fingered or blown a girl is it easy to tell which hole i have to do it to. :D

[Requin]

Okay, so from your words I'm guessing your younger than 16 right?

If you both honestly want sex, and feel ready for it, and if you both love each other enough, then neither of you should be bothered or phased by penis size, or development.
If you are not comfortable or are bothered by this, then having sex would not be the best option just yet.

First, how old are you both?
And secondly, what is the actual question?

[byee]

What you're describing here sounds like (at the very least) a recipe for a very ordinary experience, sorta like blowing your nose. At the worst, it could be rather embarassing and unsatisfying, something you'll remember but might not want to!

Having someone proposition some form of sexual entertainment is very flattering and there's often this urge to go along. However, like most urges, it's best to stop and think a bit about it, b/c the issue isn't so much doing *it*, it's also what the feelings will be like afterwards. That's what you remember, the feelings.

If you do not really know this girl, do not have a relationship with her, have never been with her, AND you're concerned about your size, development and performance, it might be best to avoid the urge and wait a while. This isn't the last opportunity you'll have.

[Requin]

To add, rather than just have sex...why don't you just find a film, order a pizza and snuggle up on the sofa and enjoy.
Sex isn't everything in a relationship remember. Especially if your a little concerned about it.

[alphus]

Cheers the other question is- Is it easy to tell which hole is the vagina and which is the pee hole. Crude I know!

[AllThatIsLeft]

how old are you?

you can't confuse the holes, the urinating hole is much to small to even find.
and to fingers someone it is not just sticking your finger up there.

[Halibut]

well size in the end does not matter. as long as you know how to use it :) and yes you will know what hold to use...i mean you both have anal holes ..so you know what that looks like. and honestly the first time might be awkward. but really it comes natural

[nick]

If your gf cares for you at all she's not going to make fun about the size of your penis. There's no shame in admitting to being inexperienced, your gf probably knows this anyway, so she'll be very happy to guide your fingers to the right place. Anyway, there's no way you can mistake the back door for the front door