mexa
February 24th, 2009, 12:21 AM
I don't know if this goes here but I suppose making mistakes you learn.
So in school we all have like our friend group, well at least mine, sports guys, weird girls or whatever you understand me. My point is...well i cant get to the point just yet let me elaborate first.
So in my class, or however you call it (im mexican btw its kinda different here) I've got 2 different groups of friends, one is the skater(lets call it A) and the other one is the videogame player, responsible and possibly nerdy(lets call it B) which is the one I relate to the most. So I usually try to sit in between both groups to talk to both, but sometimes B bugs the HELL out of me, usually their just joking but it really gets into my nerves, also they usually call me the leader or something, they follow me around and so but theres this guy that my friends in group B in which this friend (call him C) which seems like both group A and B hate/ dont like around or just dislike him, so usually when im around him they go away from me :( and leave me to stick around with him, he isnt THAT annoying but sometimes he really gets into my nerves too cause he usually says stuff that come out of NOWHERE like we're talking about parties or something and he just comes up with some game or movie crap, just like this other friend (call him D) hes got this addiction to runescape, he wont stop asking for tips and other sort of annoyances, I even tried to get him out of the addiction by sending him some sort of guide to quit MMORPG's (not that i have anything against runescape, it just bugs me the hell out that D keeps asking for tips while i cant enjoy the damn game cuz he keeps bothering me). Also I try to spend equal time with both groups, but when I stick around with group B my selfsteem goes down like a bomb for some reason, but if i go to group A out of nowhere they usually just send me to hell, even though they DO call me leader, as if they were envious of me or I might even scare them, even though theres no reason for them to, im usually a pacifist, ive never fought anyone else in my whole life (im 14) which im proud of, but i see no reason for them to reject me so badly even though ive been with them for 3 years (as i said school here is a bit different).
So my questions are how to deal with all, with friend C and D and how to deal between both groups, i know its never a good idea to change friends to i need really good advice, or at least someone trying haha.
Thanks to all in advance (gosh that was kinda long).
So in school we all have like our friend group, well at least mine, sports guys, weird girls or whatever you understand me. My point is...well i cant get to the point just yet let me elaborate first.
So in my class, or however you call it (im mexican btw its kinda different here) I've got 2 different groups of friends, one is the skater(lets call it A) and the other one is the videogame player, responsible and possibly nerdy(lets call it B) which is the one I relate to the most. So I usually try to sit in between both groups to talk to both, but sometimes B bugs the HELL out of me, usually their just joking but it really gets into my nerves, also they usually call me the leader or something, they follow me around and so but theres this guy that my friends in group B in which this friend (call him C) which seems like both group A and B hate/ dont like around or just dislike him, so usually when im around him they go away from me :( and leave me to stick around with him, he isnt THAT annoying but sometimes he really gets into my nerves too cause he usually says stuff that come out of NOWHERE like we're talking about parties or something and he just comes up with some game or movie crap, just like this other friend (call him D) hes got this addiction to runescape, he wont stop asking for tips and other sort of annoyances, I even tried to get him out of the addiction by sending him some sort of guide to quit MMORPG's (not that i have anything against runescape, it just bugs me the hell out that D keeps asking for tips while i cant enjoy the damn game cuz he keeps bothering me). Also I try to spend equal time with both groups, but when I stick around with group B my selfsteem goes down like a bomb for some reason, but if i go to group A out of nowhere they usually just send me to hell, even though they DO call me leader, as if they were envious of me or I might even scare them, even though theres no reason for them to, im usually a pacifist, ive never fought anyone else in my whole life (im 14) which im proud of, but i see no reason for them to reject me so badly even though ive been with them for 3 years (as i said school here is a bit different).
So my questions are how to deal with all, with friend C and D and how to deal between both groups, i know its never a good idea to change friends to i need really good advice, or at least someone trying haha.
Thanks to all in advance (gosh that was kinda long).