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hhhhssssuuuuhhhh
February 23rd, 2009, 10:38 PM
I find myself really attracted to this girl my cousin and I always hang out with.
She is not related to us but her family and my family are really good friends. Is this okay? I mean, she and I have had a lot of sleepovers, we do stuff all the time and so do our parents. If we went into a relationship could this ruin the ones of our families?
bagman
February 23rd, 2009, 10:57 PM
naw dude you will just be spinding more time with her.
Archer600
February 23rd, 2009, 11:04 PM
Yea just go for it I don't think either of it faamilies willmind
AllThatIsLeft
February 23rd, 2009, 11:19 PM
not a problem at all.
go for it.
Skylar15
February 23rd, 2009, 11:37 PM
Go 4 it
Oblivion
February 23rd, 2009, 11:53 PM
Moved to Relationships and Dating
jamescalipar
February 24th, 2009, 12:43 AM
go for it
MarineCorps
February 24th, 2009, 01:03 AM
As long as you aren't blood related you should be fine =D
plus, it could bring the family closer together!
Donkey
February 24th, 2009, 02:24 AM
Why not :3
Aneklusmos
February 24th, 2009, 03:45 PM
my only thing would be is that your two families might tease you about it. but if that doesn't bother you, go ahead
IAMWILL
February 24th, 2009, 05:06 PM
Ya you could go out without any problems but you might want to keep it a secret. Once a parent knows you are going out with someone, they tend to get a little over protective and such. Otherwise you'll be fine.
Cloudfire
February 25th, 2009, 12:49 AM
There'd be nothing wrong with this. Go for it.
Halibut
February 25th, 2009, 01:11 AM
no i dont think so. as long as you guys are mature about thigns! expecially breaking up
byee
February 25th, 2009, 01:11 AM
The only peotential problem with going out with close family friends is that if it doesn't work out, it could get awkward when you all get together. Decide if that's worth the risk.
hhhhssssuuuuhhhh
February 26th, 2009, 06:41 AM
thanks guys,
GiZzLe
March 2nd, 2009, 11:46 AM
(gizzle's fwend) i think that u first have to find out if she likes u. cuz if she says no, then it would be awkward when u go to hang out together. plus, if she likes u then u should go 4 it.
triplethreat40
March 4th, 2009, 09:28 PM
as long as you break up nicely, it shouldn't be a problem. one of my best friends went out with a really close family friend (sleepovers and the whole shabang. really close). nobody really cared, untill they broke up. (3 days if you care. it was stupid.) but then it was really awakward because they still had to spend so much time together. so just be carefull, but still go for it.
Tommie
March 7th, 2009, 08:09 PM
Just do it! your parents will think its cute.
but if you do eventually split up
dont make it like a huge arguement just still be friends