Fighting

[Jman35]

Alright, at my school there's a kid, well call him A. Now A has liked to run his mouth since the beginning of the year. It came down to a fist fight at a football game. If you must know, yes I started it kind of, by confronting him, and I'm being 100% honest when I say, I beat his ass.

He still runs his mouth and it gets to me every time. I try to not let it. I know the thing that would get him to stop is if I had no reaction to him.

Well, trying that didn't work once a relationship got involved. He just does some shit to my g/f and I cannot stand it. For example, she wore my hoodie, and he grabbed her by it while on the way to their homes (they are on the same bus) and started swinging her practically.

I don't think a fist fight would get him to shut his fu..flipping mouth. But I think just beating him would get a lot of tension out. I've tried weights, punching bags, stress balls, talking to my counselor, everything. He just doesn't know when to stop.

He only does shit to my g/f because he knew it would really irk me. And it worked.

Shes tried to fight back, and I've gotten in his face and gave him some, lets say "physical warnings"

He's bigger than me by a little bit to, just so you know, I am the victim in the case.

What can I do to just shut him up? Getting suspended and having my grades suffer isn't worth it.

[Mzor203]

Seriously, if he's actually doing stuff to your girlfriend, that could e classified as abuse, and in that case the best thing to do is to get help. It might sound like the 'weak' or 'pathetic' thing to do, but as you pointed out, suspension isn't a good option.

When thing get this bad, then you need outside help. If you get a school official to have a talk or two with him, hopefully things will stop, and if they don't, well just keep getting help. If he gets in trouble hopefully he'll just stop because it's not worth it.

Fighting isn't the answer. Use words before anything else. And seriously, someone else needs to help because of the possiblity of people you know getting hurt. So, don't even think about the aspects such as "it's wimpy to have other people take care of it', just do it. Good luck to you, hope things start working out for the better. :)

[Halibut]

what do you mean by runs his mouth?

[AllThatIsLeft]

When sometimes the school counselors won't listen, or won't pay much attention to the problems of teen, the best thing to do is to get parents involved.
They may not listen to you, but they will certainly listen to your mom - preferably dad - because dads are more likely to understand why you would get in a fight, rather than your mom.
As soon as the school hear word from your parents, the school will take immediate action.

For now sit tight, and don't start anything. The more you do to antagonize this individual, the more he can use against you. Keep the upper hand, and be the civilized one.
The adults will respect you for avoiding another fight, and reaching for the right help.
The guy is physically abusing your gf to get to you, low hit. That is cowardice, so talk to your parents!

[Jman35]

what do you mean by runs his mouth?

I mean he just doesnt know when to stop talking shit to me, and everything he's trying to do to get at me, is working, but I try not to show it.

[Hyper]

Well you either grow up in the inside and become immune to his runny mouth

Or you kick his ass so bad he wont try again, UNLESS he is massohistic, which is a great possibility

[Clawhammer]

He was doin crap to your lass? I'd say you should just beat his brains out. Just my oppinion, of course. Otherwise, just confront him and tell him off, if he refuses, use plan A.