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Jman35
February 23rd, 2009, 03:21 AM
Alright I'm in school, and of course there's always kids that brag, but you know they are lying, about penis size etc.
I'm 13, and my cum doesn't look like cum, and it doesn't feel right.
The problem is, when I "jerk off," instead of cumming my body just kinda, tenses up, I can't really move and my penis just seems even harder than it just was, I'm just completely stiff (not completely meant in that way)
A little bit comes out, and I've seen threads like this before. It is indeed sticky and I really don't feel like smelling it. I think it is urine but I cannot tell.
long thread short, when I masturbate, I barley cum, can't tell if I cum, and my whole body tenses up.
A) normal
B) not normal
C) you give that "everybody is different" bullshit.
Mzor203
February 23rd, 2009, 03:23 AM
A.
You're only 13. Many people can't produce sperm then. Just wait. I know this is a short answer, but yes, you are completely, 100% normal for this age. Give it time.
Jman35
February 23rd, 2009, 03:51 AM
Alright thanks but, what about the tense and stiffening, I want to keep going to see if it will come out but for some reason I just kind of, freeze. It feels like its about to hurt, but it doesn't.
I guess a good way to explain it would be, my penis muscle flexes
Mzor203
February 23rd, 2009, 03:54 AM
Yep, that's pretty much what happens when you orgasm. My body gets incredibly stuff too. Just keep going no matter what, just once, and see what happens.
The stiffness often happens, so don't worry, it's fine.
byee
February 23rd, 2009, 02:53 PM
Guys are notorious liars about sexual things, esp. at 13, so I wouldn't give too much thought to the braggadocio you're hearing about size, etc.
At 13, you're just starting, so relax and give it time, you sound fine. Puberty (and masturbation) aren't a competitive event, it'll happen when it supposed to happen, 'forcing' it won't do anything to speed it up.
Ender
February 23rd, 2009, 10:03 PM
That tens stiffening is part of your orgasm, I get the same thing. Also, your cum, its sticky but looks like urine, its is what is called "precum", you are still developing and will soon mature into "cum" which is a more milky color.
iceyfresh
February 23rd, 2009, 10:24 PM
A its normal
nick
February 24th, 2009, 01:52 PM
Sounds like you're very nearly there, don't think you'll be waiting long for the real thing.
NeedyTeen
February 24th, 2009, 02:15 PM
I hear ya bro!
Although I am a girl,I have those feelings in my own girl ways,like orgasming I still can't but one day I will (hopefully).
We're young,still kids...boys and girls.
BTW,do boys orgasm? I know weird probably stupid question.
Mzor203
February 24th, 2009, 02:55 PM
I hear ya bro!
Although I am a girl,I have those feelings in my own girl ways,like orgasming I still can't but one day I will (hopefully).
We're young,still kids...boys and girls.
BTW,do boys orgasm? I know weird probably stupid question.
Yes, boys orgasm, it's jutst accompanied by white sticky stuff.
adam1995
February 24th, 2009, 02:58 PM
dude... weve all been or are there :) what ur saying is exactlhy what its supposed to feel like just enjoy ;)
greyangel14
February 24th, 2009, 04:00 PM
A. It's normal ^^
Donkey
February 24th, 2009, 04:07 PM
Yes it's normal, give it time ;)
pontiacdriver
February 25th, 2009, 04:17 AM
Alright I'm in school, and of course there's always kids that brag, but you know they are lying, about penis size etc.
I'm 13, and my cum doesn't look like cum, and it doesn't feel right.
The problem is, when I "jerk off," instead of cumming my body just kinda, tenses up, I can't really move and my penis just seems even harder than it just was, I'm just completely stiff (not completely meant in that way)
A little bit comes out, and I've seen threads like this before. It is indeed sticky and I really don't feel like smelling it. I think it is urine but I cannot tell.
long thread short, when I masturbate, I barley cum, can't tell if I cum, and my whole body tenses up.
A) normal
B) not normal
C) you give that "everybody is different" bullshit.
Like everyone else I am going with choice A.
Regarding the colour of your semen/cum all of us were exactly like you when we first started ejaculating, and you are no different. You need to keep in mind that your body is only starting to produce semen, and especially if you masturbate frequently your body just doesn't have time to build up a "resevoir." If ejaculating a lot of cum is truly important to you, then just hold off from masturbating for a couple of days, and you will have a big ejaculation. Again, when all of us first started out cumming we didn't produce a whole lot, and it just took time for our bodies to catch up with our demands. You are fine.
As for your body tensing up that is how an orgasm is supposed to happen, and you are fine on that account, too.
Long story short, you are completely and totally normal for someone your age.
Hezzy
February 25th, 2009, 01:46 PM
I will say A
Franz Duck
February 25th, 2009, 05:27 PM
The same thing happens to me- it's because you aren't producing yet :P
Puberty away!
HikaruTheHunter
March 2nd, 2009, 02:52 AM
A & c. Xd
Antares
March 2nd, 2009, 09:37 AM
If it comes out when you are orgasming it is cum. There is also something called precum that is clear. Urine is watery and cum isn't. There is a difference.
But youre normal.
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