Non Self Harm Calendar!

[BlackenedSilver]

Woo for everyone!

4 days! :P

[ShatteredWings]

yay!!
and i has four days :)

[Zephyr]

5 days
I've had my moments,
But I've kept strong = ]

[ShatteredWings]

9 days.. yay over a week!
time to start manualy writing it down?...

[Zephyr]

6 days...
This is the first day without any temptation,
Or feeling the need.

=]]]

[NextToNormal]

keep up the good work guys...i know you can do it!!!
today makes 7 months for me. its been a hard 7 months, but i did it.

[Ironic Infidel In England]

Same as above. 7 months.

[Malcolm Tucker]

Exactly 3 weeks, and one day :)

*high fives all around*

[theOperaGhost]

Great job, guys!! :D

[ShatteredWings]

[yes, spam], but 10 days (eh.. tough morning.. went a lil crazy, but nothing like that :)]

Maybe it'll work right this time?
*is optomistic for everybody*

[BlackenedSilver]

4 days.. but starting to feel it now.

Congrats everyone btw.

[The Batman]

1 week and counting.

[DarkWingedAngel]

haven't since Wednesday so that would make it 1.2.3.4. yep 4 days

[ShatteredWings]

yay!! Guys lets keep workin

[barely made through morning.. blah. i'm ok though]

[DarkWingedAngel]

5 days without cutting
im gonna try to go for at least a week

[ShatteredWings]

YAY!! dezi i kno u can do it :D

[nachtspiegel]

I've been okay since last night, and I think I'll make it until at least tomorrow.
I have a psych eval tomorrow and it's going to play hell on my nerves.

[DarkWingedAngel]

6 days with out cutting
but i don't no if i can last any longer

[electric7rocker]

7 weeks cut free
8 weeks 3 days drug free
:D

[BlackenedSilver]

A week today! :D

[ShatteredWings]

16 days.. or 2 weeks and 2 days..


barely.. but hey, it's making that is the good thing, right?

[DarkWingedAngel]

exactly one week don't no how much longer though

[electric7rocker]

good job everyone!!
keep up the good work :D

im gonna do some good stalker work, find out where you guys live, and bring you all cake :P

[ShatteredWings]

cake is good..but maybe we should meet in a public place [lol kidding around]

But seriouslly, dezi that's awsome, u can go more

[DarkWingedAngel]

8 days

[Donkey]

Well done guys :D

[BlackenedSilver]

8 days, no cuts.
Though feel I will crack any minute.

Congratulations for everyone btw!!!

[Donkey]

Dont Blackened! Think about how you'll regret it afterwards, and how you'll feel worthless as you couldn't control yourself. Keep a clean record & body :)

[electric7rocker]

girl;387447']cake is good..but maybe we should meet in a public place [lol kidding around]

LOL youre silly



and guys you can make it!!

[john_gr]

Yes u can make it , believe in you.
Tip: Try not to think of how many days you haven't being cut , because this thought maybe one day make u deffer to temptation.

[ShatteredWings]

I don't understand the last part of your statement.

Knowing how long i haven't helps. Like, i'm not 100%, but it's kinda a motivation, see how long you can keep away from the temptation...

[electric7rocker]

well it depends how you think of it
like if youre thinking
"omg i havent cut in a whole day im dying" then its not helpful
but if youre thinking
"omg i havent cut in a whole day im doing so good!" then it is

so both of you are right

[Skhorpion]

16.5 years

Doin' good eh?

[electric7rocker]

*sigh*

[BlackenedSilver]

9 days, I made it through last night.. but really doubting my ability to last tonight.

[ShatteredWings]

16.5 years

Doin' good eh?
Really, don't be an asshole, thanks :)
9 days, I made it through last night.. but really doubting my ability to last tonight.
If you made it through last night, you can do it again. :hug:

[DarkWingedAngel]

2 days i would have cut but Austin(said_person) keeps on telling me not to on flashchat
and then i don't know it helps a little
well anyways thanks Austin(said_person)

[girlygirl]

a month now.. trying my hardest but knw it wont b long before i cut again...

[DarkWingedAngel]

^^ oh c'mon your doing great
and one thing
i learned this in school
if you think that something is going to happen it will
so think positive

[The Batman]

2 weeks and a day

[Donkey]

Yay go Shiver :)

[Atonement]

Good job everybody :hug:

[ShatteredWings]

a day.. i think a full day...

[electric7rocker]

8 weeks
guys if i can make it this far you can too

[ShatteredWings]

i know.
and i'm getting help

[ShatteredWings]

a week[unless i mis-counted]

Sorry fer the double post, but this thread needs to be bumped more often

[The Batman]

6 days. I think I'm finally ready to quit.

[electric7rocker]

:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) yeah!!!!

[nachtspiegel]

It's been 24 hours.
It doesn't sound like much, but for me, considering my habits as of recent, it is an accomplishment.

[ShatteredWings]

Yes, it is
:hug:

i have no clue how long it's actually been since i havn't hurt myself[three days? 24 hours? idk].....but i think it's been three weeks since i last cut [yes, there is a differeence]

[nachtspiegel]

Three or four days.
I don't know how much longer I can hold up.

[Bobby]

Keep going. Stay strong.

[DarkWingedAngel]

a day
im going to see how long i can last without it

[DarkWingedAngel]

double post
like 2 days without it

[nachtspiegel]

I still have not caved.

[Malcolm Tucker]

Well that's just brilliant :) 1 day, 2 weeks, 3 months, however long, if you can go without it, you have potential to stop all together :) That's awesome everyone :)

I myself have gone 1 week, and 6 days

[Synthslave]

it would be 12 months now.since new year.but i have a strong urge to to something bad to myself.hmph.it always starts at winter -.- .

[DarkWingedAngel]

3 days without it

[DaretoFallup]

yay good job Desi :D

[nachtspiegel]

I still have not caved.
I'm taking it, literally, an hour at a time.

[electric7rocker]

it gets worse in winter for me too
10 weeks 6 days
drug free 12 weeks 2 days

[The Batman]

13 days i think

[nachtspiegel]

I haven't self-injured in any manner since November 26th.
It has almost been a week.

[theOperaGhost]

Awesome! Keep it up guys! :)

[DarkWingedAngel]

4 days without it
that might all fall apart when I see my dad Friday

[Atonement]

Good job everyone. Keep it up.

8 days without.

[electric7rocker]

4 days without it
that might all fall apart when I see my dad Friday

it doesnt have to
you can be strong we all believe in you

[DarkWingedAngel]

5 days

[nachtspiegel]

I still have not caved.
It's been a week now.

[DarkWingedAngel]

6 days
but then agen i see my dad tomorrow

[electric7rocker]

if you start to get angry at him picture him in a penguin suit
or something

idk just dont let him get to you
if he starts stressing you out just tell him to calm down

[ShatteredWings]

4 days no cutting (hey.. it's the 4th isnt' it?)


one day no self harm at all..

*shrugs* improvement i guess

[DarkWingedAngel]

1 week
heh my dad totally forgot that i was supposed to see him

[ShatteredWings]

lol. that's great :)

[Zephyr]

2 days in the clear = ]

[Atonement]

2 days in the clear = ]

and 3 after tonight?! :D Yes? that'd be nice. :D

[nachtspiegel]

I am about to cave.
It was a nice week.

[DarkWingedAngel]

im pretty much about to cave
but i will see if i can make it through the weekend at least

[DarkWingedAngel]

*double post*

9 days

[DarkWingedAngel]

*triple post*
10 days

[eikookmi]

about 5 days

[ShatteredWings]

that/s good guys


nine days without any cuts...
holds some significance.. idky

[DarkWingedAngel]

11 days now
im gonna crack soon tho

[Atonement]

I think its 19 days... Without cutting.

[nachtspiegel]

Two weeks tomorrow.

[Fiending_the_freedom]

a month!

[Atonement]

yay! go tegan! *party*

[DarkWingedAngel]

12 days

[DarkWingedAngel]

*double post*
13 days

[The Batman]

22 days

[NextToNormal]

im proud of you guys. i know you can keep it up!
personally, its been 8 months. its been long and very hard. but somehow, i did it

[electric7rocker]

12 weeks 2 days no cutting
13 weeks 5 days no weed
...one day without a cigarette

its like i keep adding on addictions i have to kick or something

[DarkWingedAngel]

2 weeks

[electric7rocker]

im addicted to addiction

[eikookmi]

about 10 days

[DarkWingedAngel]

2 weeks and 1 day

[nachtspiegel]

Same as most recent post.

[ShatteredWings]

12 weeks 2 days no cutting
13 weeks 5 days no weed
...one day without a cigarette

its like i keep adding on addictions i have to kick or something

wow. that's a lot to stop at once.
But, you're doing really well. don't fall back :)




anyways.. fifteen days.. amazingly.

[eikookmi]

like 13 days zzzz althought i wanted to tonight

[ShatteredWings]

I know it's begining to seem really obvious, by relation to the date.. but it's kinda re-confirming that i CAN do this and i CAN break it

18 days

[DarkWingedAngel]

since my last cut
i think i have gone somewhere around 5 days idk tho ill check

[DarkWingedAngel]

6 days
but now my mom is being a total bitch and taking bitchfits so i don't know how long this will last

[eikookmi]

17 days
i've wanted to a lot of times and i can easily do it where someone cant see
blahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[DarkWingedAngel]

7 days

[ailismf1]

39 days, i gotta keep this up.. 5 years of it. now i've done 39 days blade free. : )

[Weak]

deleted

[ShatteredWings]

ok. hard is one thing
but is it impossiable?
no :)

[Malcolm Tucker]

It was 6 weeks yesterday for me :) Best 6 weeks of my life. I'm over the moon, I've never gone so long without it before :)

Great work everyone else too :):D

[BeautifulSilence]

A few days... Possibly break that tonight. No urges yet, mind... Just a certain someone is gonna invade my Christmas and I got's a feelin' tht I ain't gonn be happy.

[DarkWingedAngel]

afew days
my mom is finally gonna get me some help
so i hope it does actually help me
so yea

[BeautifulSilence]

I think today makes five.

[DarkWingedAngel]

about 8 days

[ShatteredWings]

Yays!
:hug:

thirty [full month, in how i count]

[Weak]

deleted

[nachtspiegel]

8 days

[DarkWingedAngel]

13 days

[The Batman]

18 days if I'm not mistaken and it wasn't by choice either.

[DarkWingedAngel]

14 days

[ShatteredWings]

thirty *momentary thought* six days

yay!


dezi. *huggle*

[ShatteredWings]

*bump*
thirty nine. :D


this should bebumped more often than the self-harm thread.
Idk, just me maybe.

[DarkWingedAngel]

17 days

[Malcolm Tucker]

:D 10 weeks yesterday :D

[ShatteredWings]

Hm..

*gets callender out to check*

six weeks.. two days
So. forty-four days

Meh, Well this is really "without breaking my skin".
I'm still happy(ish) though

[AutumnDae]

Michael, Dezi, and Gwyn, you guys are doing awesome!

I'm really happy for you guys!

[ShatteredWings]

*hugs autumn*

[AutumnDae]

*hugs back*

Although I am proud of you for not cutting, we really need to figure out a way for you to stop harming yourself other ways Gwyn. But I suppose solve one thing at a time...

[ShatteredWings]

Yeah..
I'm focusing on that, and what we've talked about, because it's the worst...

[AutumnDae]

So its....43 days now Gwyn? You are doing awesome!

[ShatteredWings]

Count forwards, not backwards :)

46 (assuming i get through today)

[AutumnDae]

Oh sorry, I read that as "forty-three."
Don't know how, but I did.

Don't assume Gwyn, know! I know you can make it through the day. It might get hard, but think of how well you are doing!

[ShatteredWings]

'Course I can... I'm being somewhat pessimistic, i know.
Even better, i haven't hurt myself at all today :) like.. at all at all.. yay

[nachtspiegel]

3 weeks

[Techno Monster]

4 and 1/2 months :D
I can do this.
I got this under control.

[Atonement]

GOOD JOB EVERYONE! keep it goin

[Eclipse]

2 months I think. Damn everybody's doing so good.

[AutumnDae]

Everyone is doing so amazing! :)

[nachtspiegel]

I'm glad that I've made it 3 weeks, but I just wonder how bad it will be when I do cave again.

[BlackenedSilver]

I have cut.. since before christmas. :D
It was mainly because my mum found out and it hurt her so much.

Good to see everyone doing so well. Well done! :hug2:

[MysticalBurrito]

2 and a half days :yeah: :woot:


this is pretty good coming from a girl who normaly passes out every night

[ShatteredWings]

YES! it is
I'm not in the mood to figure it out right now =/

[DarkWingedAngel]

about 2 weeks

[nachtspiegel]

It will be a month on Tuesday and I am afraid of what will happen when I cave.

[The Batman]

Don't think about caving just take it day by day and keep going strong.

[Triceratops]

I haven't done it in 10 days :)
I'm afraid I'll cave...

[ShatteredWings]

:hug:
Don't cave. don't think about it

[MysticalBurrito]

three days :yes::yeah:

[Sapphire]

Well done everyone! It takes real strength to stop self harming and you should all be very proud of what you are working towards! :smile:

"Slow and steady wins the race" - it is true even with this. Take things one step at a time and do not worry yourself with next week or next month.

[MysticalBurrito]

If i can go threw today il be starting at day one again:D

[DarkWingedAngel]

16 or 17 days

[MysticalBurrito]

awesome keep going!
:yes:

[DarkWingedAngel]

18 days

[Triceratops]

I haven't cut so far today.
I'm hoping that'll stay the same.
I plan to not cut for a whole week which I doubt I'll suceed in doing.

[ShatteredWings]

Don't doubt it.
You can do it..


I don't feel like counting backwards, but the 29th will be two months (60 days)
Or at least without cutting anyway

[DarkWingedAngel]

19 days
im actually quite proud

[AutumnDae]

Good job Gwyn and Desi.

Marcie, good job too. Don't look as "I doubt I will be able to do that"

Look at it as "I can do this. I'll take it day by day, hour by hour."

[Triceratops]

You're right, I need to stop thinking so negatively of myself right now.
I'll try, I haven't caved yet.
And I want to continue it that way =]

[Atonement]

Good job everyone, keep it going. We all know you can.

[Spin]

3 days but I feel like doing it so bad. :(

[MysticalBurrito]

:hug3: dont cave be strong!!

[DarkWingedAngel]

20 days

[MysticalBurrito]

:eek: great job keep going!!!

[-Silence]

Last week I hit four months, the surprising thing is it really hasn't even crossed my mind. :)

[Atonement]

Last week I hit four months, the surprising thing is it really hasn't even crossed my mind. :)

THATS EFFING AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!

:woot:

[BlackenedSilver]

Omg A month a 7 days! :yeah: :P

Well done everyone!! :wub:

[MysticalBurrito]

great job keep going!!

[DarkWingedAngel]

21 days
altho i have a feeling im gonna crack soon

[Burnthecity]

12 days

[MysticalBurrito]

today is the start of another try if i make it today it will be one day

[ShatteredWings]

don't be negative
:)
:hug2:
you'll do it

[MysticalBurrito]

thanks :) :hug3: stupid cuts keep cracking

[Triceratops]

I haven't caved recently :)
But the scars on my left wrist from 6 months a go are STILL noticeable, they're a pinkish color now.

[DarkWingedAngel]

22 days

[MysticalBurrito]

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

holy cow!!
keep going!!

[Burnthecity]

13 days, was really close to cracking today, lets hope i dont

[MysticalBurrito]

officaly 1 day now
ugh im going to cave
Edit: dont cave errrrr dont really know your name

[Triceratops]

I've lost count on how may days I haven't cut :confused:
I will now officially start...today.

So 1 day without cutting so far.

[ShatteredWings]

I do that a bit.. that's part of why i use this thread :P

[MysticalBurrito]

Almost one whole day
but i have a feeling im gonna cave :(

[ShatteredWings]

dont think like that.

[MysticalBurrito]

i caved sadly todays just not a good day
Edit
Woohoo half a day
Edit~ A whole day!!

[LaLa]

a week! :yeah:

[nick979]

That's just it...SMOKING DOESN'T stop depression. It isn't a cure for anything...except a cause for cancer. People also try and say "Oh, my cig gets rid of my stress." NO it doesn't, they're just addicted...lol

i totally disagree, if smoking stops your depression then its definatly a positive.

[Triceratops]

I was too busy to cut today, fortunately.

However, it was pretty awkward at the hairdressers because they asked me to take my hoodie off and I only had like one bracelet covering up all of my noticeable bright red scars. I sort of wish no one had noticed them, but then again, do I really give a shit? No.

[Rutherford The Brave]

That's just it...SMOKING DOESN'T stop depression. It isn't a cure for anything...except a cause for cancer. People also try and say "Oh, my cig gets rid of my stress." NO it doesn't, they're just addicted...lol

Actually you can't say that, cause you can't disprove it neither can you prove it. Back on topic, I havent cut for 3 months!

[BeautifullyBroken_x]

Hello im new to this, iv been cut free for nearly a year now but im seriously thinking about it right now...i feel like iv lost the willpower to resist it and the one person who gave me the strength to stop

[Spin]

6 days. I really feel like I can stop for good. :D

[ShatteredWings]

Hello im new to this, iv been cut free for nearly a year now but im seriously thinking about it right now...i feel like iv lost the willpower to resist it and the one person who gave me the strength to stop
Wow, a year is a REALLY long time.
If you can go that long, you can keep going. You don't need it.

[nachtspiegel]

I want to say that it's been 8 days. Pretty much since I haven't been at my mom's. Interesting...

[Fiending_the_freedom]

4 days till its gonna be a month!

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

That's great, Tegan! Congrats in advance on reaching that milestone. :)

[Triceratops]

Woah everyone is so well.

I haven't cut in...one day. Boo :|

[BlackenedSilver]

About 8 days now.. I am determined not to do it, well on my arm anyway Summer will be here soon and I wanna wear short sleeved. I doubt I will be able to the scars are pretty bad.

Well done everyone, keep it up. Stay safe! :smile:

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Don't be so hard on yourself Marcie, one day is still an accomplishment. :hug: One day at a time, remember. Don't focus too much on keeping up a long streak, just take each day as it comes. :)

BlackenedSilver, that's a great goal, some good motivation. Hopefully once you can learn to leave your arms alone, you can move on to not hurting yourself at all. If you're really concerned about the scars, maybe try using some Mederma, or another scar-fading product. Remember, you're working to quit. Don't let the past keep you from enjoying the future. (Off-topic, I know, but I also wanna say that your avatar pic is gorgeous. :) )

[BlackenedSilver]

BlackenedSilver, that's a great goal, some good motivation. Hopefully once you can learn to leave your arms alone, you can move on to not hurting yourself at all. If you're really concerned about the scars, maybe try using some Mederma, or another scar-fading product. Remember, you're working to quit. Don't let the past keep you from enjoying the future. (Off-topic, I know, but I also wanna say that your avatar pic is gorgeous. :) )

Thank you for the Avatar comment :lol3: :wub:
Ive been told that Aqueous cream helps scars and I have alot of that, not sure if it will work. :confused:
For some reason Ive convinced myself that it feels better on the wrist.. I dont know how and why. I just have break that now. Thanks you xx


Keep going people!

[Techno Monster]

I DID NOT cut through all of this!
Yes!
I got this!

[Malcolm Tucker]

Wednesday gone makes it exactly 3 months :/ woo

[Triceratops]

Congrats Michael! Seriously that's so cool :)

I have gone 3 days without cutting.
And for me, that's really good.
So yayayayay :banana::banana: !! :D

[MysticalBurrito]

7 days its getting harder :(

[The Batman]

5 days I almost didn't make it but I did.

[Triceratops]

4 days :D yay!