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AllyKat675
February 21st, 2009, 10:54 AM
I Like two people at once except for both of them my feelings are different. There is this one person who im so comftorable talking about anything and thats rare for me and that person makes me just hapy and they really boost me up when i feel bad and at first i got the butterflies with them but its just like a warm feeling now. the second person everytime im around that person i like to have all of thier attention even if its neggative i just want them to notice me everytime that person smiles i smile and i can't help but laugh around them and they are just so postive it kinda makes me feel that way.
So who should i go with person 1 or person ??

AutumnDae
February 21st, 2009, 01:26 PM
Well, judging from how you describe them, I say person 1.

You seem like you genuinely like them, and it's good that you can feel like you can talk to them about anything, and you feel happy around them.

Now, for person number2. I will admit, there are guys that I just like attention from. Even if it is them being mean, I just want them to pay attention to me. But that doesn't mean that I like them. I would never like them, nor would I ever date them. They are more of 'friends' or 'acquaintances'

So yes, I suggest you 'choose' number 1. :)

byee
February 21st, 2009, 02:37 PM
I'm with my pal Autumn on this one: I go for person one, too.

There's something not quite right about Number Two, if you 'NEED' his attention so much. That suggests *something* else is going on, which leaves you much more vulnerable to intense feelings if things don't work out and you cannot get that attention you seem to need so badly.

The best relationships develop slowly, over time, out of want, not need.

IAMWILL
February 22nd, 2009, 02:32 AM
Ya I'm agreeing with Autumn and Sammy here. #1 seems like the better choice because you have a strong relationship with him and you like him for who he is, not by how he looks or what he has/doesn't have. #2 in this situation kinda seems like someone you just like because you think you should like him, while with one it's more of a "natural" relationship. You have come to like him over a period of time.
Good relationships take awhile to develop but then also last for a long time.
Go for #1.

scatman
February 22nd, 2009, 04:36 AM
you shouldn't have to ask this question, you know who you should pick trust me

AllyKat675
April 30th, 2009, 04:55 PM
Ya I'm agreeing with Autumn and Sammy here. #1 seems like the better choice because you have a strong relationship with him and you like him for who he is, not by how he looks or what he has/doesn't have. #2 in this situation kinda seems like someone you just like because you think you should like him, while with one it's more of a "natural" relationship. You have come to like him over a period of time.
Good relationships take awhile to develop but then also last for a long time.
Go for #1.

Its a girl Lol and yea i made the right desicion

Gumleaf
April 30th, 2009, 08:51 PM
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