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thatguy7419
February 19th, 2009, 11:32 PM
one day i was searching throught virtual teen and i saw a forum in mastrabating with friends, so i asked my best friend if he wanted to and he said yes, and we mastrabated to gay porn. we also tried toching each other by jerking off each other which didnt work out; deos this make us gay? and do you think that this is normal?

pokerface
February 19th, 2009, 11:37 PM
Well first off let me say that nobody can answer this question for you. And two, I don't think it does, but that's just me.
It's normal, so don't sweat it. Dudes do this together all the time. I've been in a situation similar to your's, minus the gay porn. That's not a big deal, and it's what gets you off doesn't make you.

aid821
February 19th, 2009, 11:41 PM
i'd say it's more like experimentation, all teenagers go through this as they become curious about the human body and want to explore it in some way.

chris__batman
February 20th, 2009, 06:52 AM
one day i was searching throught virtual teen and i saw a forum in mastrabating with friends, so i asked my best friend if he wanted to and he said yes, and we mastrabated to gay porn. we also tried toching each other by jerking off each other which didnt work out; deos this make us gay? and do you think that this is normal?


Just so i can better answer the question i need to know.. why "gay" porn?

Donkey
February 20th, 2009, 09:53 AM
No you were experimenting... if later in life you only like guys then you're gay but that's fine.

thatguy7419
February 20th, 2009, 10:00 AM
Just so i can better answer the question i need to know.. why "gay" porn?

thats what we wanted to watch i guess, we first tried regular porn and he said he didnt like it

BeautifulSilence
February 20th, 2009, 10:54 AM
Moved to Teen Sexuality.

Being homosexual is being attracted -physically and emotionally- to the same sex.

Teenagers mastubate together ALL the time! It's experimentation because you're curious.

If you -or your friend- prefer gay porn to straight porn it doesn't automatically make you -or your friend- gay.

You're still pretty young and at some point in your life you will be attracted to another male, but that won't make you homosexual.. It doesn't even make you bisexual, in my opinion.

And even if you -and/or your friend- are constantly attracted to males, you don't have to label yourselves as gay or bisexual. You don't have to label yourselves at all. Calling or identifying yourself as one thing isn't going to change who you are.

lgodde
February 20th, 2009, 10:57 AM
jacking off with a friend as a teen is pretty normal
even jacking each other is sometimes fun
i did with several friends when i was 12-15
if you are having fun keep it up, no pun intended
it does not make you gay
try doing it with out the prorn

Bigboy1
February 20th, 2009, 11:32 AM
only you can decide whether you are gay

Furn_93
February 20th, 2009, 11:54 AM
Although this has already been answered, if you were gay you wouldn't be asking.

You were just experimenting, there's nothing wrong about it, its kinda normal. Although j/o to gay porn, whose idea was that? Because if you were turned on by it, it could suggest you're curious, but at any level, thats almost standard in loads of teens. So there's no problem :)

Skylar15
February 20th, 2009, 05:41 PM
no just curious

marktheman
February 24th, 2009, 10:14 AM
I masturbate with my best friend all the time. We aren't gay, just curious. I'm not in love with him, just having fun.

Justwondering
February 24th, 2009, 10:19 AM
"which didnt work out" What do you mean, like didnt like it?

No it doesnt make you gay to masturbate with another guy, I think like 75% of teens experiment with stuff like this, Its our hormones and human nature to be curious. To be gay you have to be mentally and physically attracted to men. Be careful when doing this, because there is a long list of things that could happen. For example, You could ruin the friendship, which would really suck. One of you may get emotionally attached, and the list goes on and on. So just be careful, because ruining a friendship over something sexual sucks.

Haru Taki
March 5th, 2009, 08:28 PM
i wanna try it....im really curious to know wht it feels like?

nick
March 5th, 2009, 08:56 PM
It sounds completely normal and as if you're probably not gay. Just go with the flow and take what comes...

Lifeguard18
March 8th, 2009, 08:21 PM
No one can tell u if ur gay. It's probably more like experimenting

Ladysman
March 11th, 2009, 11:54 AM
It doesn't make you gay I masurbate all the time though nvr with a friend

Prince_of_Peace
March 11th, 2009, 01:27 PM
QUESTION: If masterbated a guy and the guy masterbated him...would that be a gay sexual interaction since both of them are guys? Now, since gay people have sex with the same sex which on this case are both guys, why is it then that they are not both gay? I do not know about the rest of people out there, but I dont see people experimenting and having sex with their dogs or cats or chickens? I think that makes you gay to have same sex with him. Now if you will stop that act, maybe you are not gay. Don't be gay if you are not gay. Only you can aswer that question. Who am I to say these but a nobody.

sjfz
March 21st, 2009, 01:37 AM
Well, I have a really close friend that is bi, and he'd expressed that he'd be comfortable with experimenting. I'd never done it before, and we never actually did, even though I'd thought about doing it. It doesn't make you gay if you do it, or if you want to; teenagers experiment.

BeautifulTragedy
April 3rd, 2009, 11:09 AM
Masturbating together...yes. Thats pretty normal.

But touching eachother..that took it to a totally different level.

It seems a little gay/queer but it depends on whether you liked it or not.

SouthStreet Patrick
April 4th, 2009, 11:31 AM
Hey it's normal to try things with a friend. Experimenting with someone your comfortable with is great.:yes:

thatguy7419
April 6th, 2009, 02:46 PM
i wanna try it....im really curious to know wht it feels like?

i definitly recomend trying it becouse it makes it alot more fun!

YourFriend
April 10th, 2009, 03:46 PM
Only you can know weather you are gay but i'd say you arent.

sjfz
April 21st, 2009, 08:49 PM
Personally, I think it's pretty normal, and it doesn't make you gay. I've jacked off with a friend before, and it was pretty fun. I'm straight, and it didn't make me gay. :)

MattiaFrasca
April 24th, 2009, 09:53 PM
it's perfectly normal. i jacked off whith a friend, it was a little akward but its normal!