school problems

[Adam d batten]

when i am at school i have had a problem with kid making fun and jokes about my new girlfriend and i was just wondering what i should do i have asked them to stop and it continued i have went to administration and still continued i am all out of ideas HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:what:

[Ender]

just ignore it. Bullies just want your attention, and you are giving in. Just completely ignore the bully. If u like ur girlfriend, b with her. Whatever you do, do not threaten or attack the bully, because that turns you into a bad guy when you are not.

I have to deal with bullies all of the time, so I completely understand where u are coming from. I know it sucks.

[staying_alive]

You either ignore the bullies and get on with your life or you tell them to shut the fuck up because she's your girlfriend and they have no business talking about her like they do. Whatever you do, don't go to the administration...isn't that like the first rule of being bullied? I mean the administration makes it worse when they think they're making it better. So i agree with the above poster, ignoring them is your best bet. However, don't deny that it will get worse, because it probably will. But eventually it will drop off because bullies have a lot less determination when the victim doesn't give a shit.

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Education and Careers

[teenboy93]

i would just ignore them! BULLIES r people who r often insecure about themselves and they take it out on other people. usually the reasons they take out on u r the reasons they r insecure in themselves. they r all looking for a reaction so dont give it to them!!!!! if u dont react to them they wont care.

[byee]

Making fun and jokes about girlfriend=jealousy.

Either ignore it, or go back to administration and tell them it's continuing, and let them readdress it with them.

[INFERNO]

I see a few choices. First, go back to administration, with the girlfriend and mention it again. Second, enjoy the reasoning for the bullying. If it happened when you got the girlfriend, I'd say it's likely the bully is jealous, so you have a good girl, and presumably what will be a good girlfriend. Third, you ignore it. If it's petty name-calling, it to me looks much like jealousy so if you ignore it, hopefully the bully would stop or move onto someone else to bother. If you don't go to administration and you and your girlfriend don't react to the bully, then the bully gets nothing. Either they try harder and harder, but when that fails, they'd be more likely to give up. Hopefully you can take this bullying as an exercise of your relationship. If it breaks, it wasn't strong, if it doesn't then it's strengthened.

[thatguy7419]

peole can somtimes be jerks; so somtimes you have to figth fire with fire: find somthing realy emarasing about him and taunt him about it

[Adam d batten]

ok going back to administration and standing up to them didnt work out to well all 16 kids tried beating me up and some how that didnt work for them.

[bud2.0]

when i was going out with my girlfriend (now ex) people said she was a brick and her voice was deeper than mine but i just ignored it

[Adam d batten]

thats nothin people sayt that she causes earthquakes and when ever she walks and a guy is u knowing the guy ejas so ya

[adam dockery]

ok ive been throught the same exact thing ur goin through, almost the same name callen, if its a bunch a kids doin it then find the biggest one u can and punch him right in the face. The same thing i did, exept im like the biggest kid in my grade (not fat). U might get in trouble but just explain y u did it and they will be cool with it. If they told u u should have gone to an adult tell them u did, but it didnt work. The other kids will leave u alone, well maybe, i had to fight like 5 other kids but its all good. hoped this help. PM if u got any more questiond, cause i literally was in the same exact spot as u