I have a problem

[anime Freak]

I have a problem. I know guys look at girls and stare at them and want to touch. But i almost cannot control myself. I have a very strong drive that is not being fullfiled. I have to Jack Off to the point where it is interfearing with my life to be able to control myself. This is a real problem, i am thirteen and it gets worse every year and the girls get more attractive every year which make it worse. And the fact that a couple of the girls that turn me on sit near me in class is a real problem. one time one of them was sitting next to me and i saw the side of her boob and it was all i could do to not touch it i leterally had to go to the bathroom and JO to controll myself. I have even thought about groping them when the hallway is packed and pass it off as an embarrising accident.

Please i am a good person and do not want to do any of these things on my own free will. It sickens me that i am like this. Am i sick? do i need help? Please know i do everything i can so i do not do anything wrong.

[Oblivion]

If masturbation is interfering with your life, as you say it is, you need to either use all of your willpower to stop, or see a counselor/therapist.
Masturbation is not physically addicting- there's nothing that makes you want more. It's just a good feeling, that people are expected to control.

[SockzInABox]

your not sick and you don't need help
it's just hormones not to big of deal..
you just need to learn to control them..
if one thing doesn't work move onto another method
eventually you will find one tat works

[Ender]

i would highly suggest just focusing on the provided school work and not the females in your classroom. I know it can be real hard, trust me, but once you find the solution(focusing on school work) the only girl u will be noticing is your gf, hopefully outside of class though, and not during a sport activity or any of your normal life events.

[staying_alive]

See someone to discuss this. I won't downplay what your'e saying as hormones because that IS all that's going on here but it's gotten to the point where it's controlling your life. You need to find someone who can help you get your mind off of women so much and concentrate on life. You seem to be fantasizing so much that when you do get to the point of sex it will be a disappointment. Now, we don't want that do we? You need to either A) see someone who can help you, like a therapist or B ) realize yourself that you're overreacting to hormones and that sex will be a disappointment if you continue.

[byee]

13 is difficult, b/c all those hormones are really new and really powerful, it's very distracting. I think you need some time to get used to it, I don't think there's necessarily something wrong with you.

Continue to exert self control, don't act on those urges, and use your imagination when you get home and you have privacy to deal with them in an appropriate manner (masturbation) which should lower the tension for you.

As you get older, you get used to the hormones, and things just settle down, this is a temporary thing right now b/c of the newness of it all.

[aid821]

i know this may sound abit silly but consider just stopping and counting to three, five, ok ten.. gather yourself and refocus on what you're doing (in class, playground etc), and wait until you get home to do what you have to do. sometimes we forget to look at the simple way of sorting things out. if you can achieve this 1- you wont be always having to 'do your thing' and 2- you will learn some self control which is really important as we get older. best of luck ;)

[thatguy7419]

well whatever you dont touch them becouse they could realy sue you and maybe jerking off is the best answer in a situation like this

[Lord GaGa]

OK, that isn't a really big problem. Just lower your gaze and hang out with people away from them. Do all you can not to concentrate on girls.

[datbaseballboy24]

dude ur fine, its just ur hormones, ur just going through puberty, no big deal