asking the right way

[jmason]

well, i have this friend who i think might be gay, but i don't want to ask him if he is because it might ruin the friendship that we already have. i really really like him, but i don't know what to do.

[kolte]

invite him over to your house, and like, take your shirt off. see if hes looking and if he is, flirt with him, and if hes gay hell be enjoying it, if hes stright hell be like, dude, I'm not that way and you can just be like, I'm joking dude. and it will be funny.

[jmason]

i'm 14. yeah pretty much right now, friendship is more important than a relationship. i'll just keep him as a friend & we'll see as we get older. thank you so much for your help

[Tr1X]

Just say have you ever been turned on by a man
not like 'I no your gay' but like your just thinking of it randomly or trying to start a conversation.
In writing that sounds really weird but I recon it would work lol

[TheWizard]

Hi Trix

Welcome to VT

:)

[WelshLad]

think about it, does it actually matter if he was gay or not?