is it normal

[nicole 23]

i've never been attracted to guys my own age(18). I think some are hot but sexually there is nothing there. When i look at an older man around 35 to 4o i am very sexually attracted to them, especially if i know him. Is that normal for my age?

[Halibut]

well basically its each to there own. i dont think its wrong! its not for me . but it dont mean that its wrong

[Confused4life]

Most people wouldn't classify that as normal, but I consider it normal because everyone has different tastes. Yours just happen to be older men

[BeautifulSilence]

Everyone has different preferences.

I personally find it easier to be sexually attracted to an older guy [yep, some right up in their mid-forties] as opposed to a guy my age.

I wouldn't call it "normal" (because I believe there's almost no such thing) but it definitely isn't weird or wrong :)

[AussieBoy]

dude, i just had sex with a guy 50+ who i really like and i know he likes me. it was cool, i think i like older guys sort of 40+ it was awesome, he taught me so much stuff. he likes me and treats me really good. if it's legal where u r dude, go for it

[byee]

Well, to each his own, huh? People have been trying to figure out the basis for attraction forever, I think the issue isn't so much the ages, but the reasons. As long as you're not looking for something that you feel you've lost or been deprived of, it's OK. Otherwise, the expectations need to be really clarified to prevent unhappiness.

[RoflWaffle]

Well to me i find that disgusting but if you like it .... go for it i guess

[OnlyByTheNight.]

Not something i would do but as they say different strokes for different folks.

[ShatteredGlass]

Nope there's nothing wrong with that i feel sexually attracted to older men and i dont think there's anything wrong with being attracted i think it's wrong if your like 14 and he's like 38 to be messin around (here in the US that's called statutory rape) but yeah wants you get over 18 then yeah do what you want (not anything to crazy tho :) )

[MidnightHorizon]

Theres nothing wrong with it, i go by personality not age. So if you like guys that are older, go for it.

[AllThatIsLeft]

perfectly normal. i'm sexually attracted to a guy double my age XD ... obviously i cant do anything about that until i'm legal. but there is nothing wrong with liking older guys.

just be careful that they are not pedophilic or anything wierd!