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BlackenedSilver
February 18th, 2009, 06:23 PM
This is probably a total waste of a post.

But, Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of 7 months and Im really not sure that Ive made the right choice, I thought I had.
It upset that I couldnt see him much because I was always loaded with schoolwork, Also other things about me upset him alot. And I just didnt want to put him through that anymore, so I broke it off. I still love him, he still loves me and he actually said he didnt want it to end and wasnt going to move on.
So do you think I did the right thing? :what:

IAMWILL
February 18th, 2009, 06:44 PM
I don't think you made a big mistake here, you're just to busy. This happens in all teenage relationships, and thats why they don't last long. Tell him you still like him, but you are just to busy to be with him. You will be able to go out with him again when your schedule calms down, which it will, so don't worry.

rette_mich
February 18th, 2009, 06:50 PM
I think that if you questioned it then it was right.
If you find that you don't have the time you know should be dedicated to the relationship I think it's noble of you to break it off until things calm down.
It seems like he cares about you and if he does, I think that he will wait for you.
Good luck!

Rutherford The Brave
February 19th, 2009, 10:35 AM
It depends on how you feel sweetling, still if you think its right then its right. You should question these things you know.

BlackenedSilver
February 19th, 2009, 02:10 PM
Thank you, its basically what I thought I just guess I needed some reassurance.

Greg thanks I should have thought it over first and I didnt really. But I think it was the right choice, it was unfair to upset him like that constantly.

Hugs to all! :hug2:

Thanks again :wub:

Rutherford The Brave
February 20th, 2009, 10:36 PM
No problem Hun, I love you and you should keep strong.

Smack02
February 20th, 2009, 11:06 PM
Hi,

Many friends and family members will advise us against this, but they do not live our lives and can not possibly understand our relationship as well as we do.