Big problem

[eMo DiNo]

im 14 and bi and there is this really amazing boy in my class...i have a crush on him, but he REALLY hates bi's and gay's and he thinks im straight, any advice?

[Patchy]

Moved to teen sexuality.

[ShatteredWings]

Sadly, nothing you can do.

if he's both straight and homophobic, you're kinda screwed

[Ender]

is he someone you trust?

[rette_mich]

I don't know that there's anything you can do to act on the feelings you are having.
I wish that there was, but if he really is how you say he is, I think it's like a dead-end.
However, as time passes, things could change.
I'm sure you will find someone that likes you for you soon.
Hope that helped at all haha.

[Ender]

if he is sum1 u trust, sit down wit him, and let him know ur bi. If he is ur friend, he will eventually accept it(may b a lil shocked at first), and if he doesnt....he wasnt ur friend to start with.

[nick]

go home, have a wank, leave him alone

[Ender]

go home, have a wank, leave him alone

Thats is a good idea too, lol

[Furn_93]

Well lots of people have that problem. If you're friends with him, ask him to confirm if he really is straight and/or homophobic, then if he is, you'll know. Try to not think about him (As hard as you can, I can't stress that enough!!!) or look at him that much, and eventually you will get over him.

If he isn't homophobic, like he uses it to maintain some sort of image (i'm bi but I pretended to hate gay people... worked until I told everyone lol, but i'm not suggesting for one second that he could be as well) then come out to him and let him decide what to do about it. Because he most probably is straight.

Don't get your hopes up too much though, cos all that'll end up doing is causing you great pain, stress and anger for a long time.

[Skylar15]

just tell him u like him

[Trickster]

just tell him u like him

Whatever you do dont do that. That idiotic. It could be a disaster
You need to confirm is he homophobic as he HATES gay or is he just gay insensitive where he say your so gay and stuff like that.
If he is like a good friend you will need to get closer and become better friends. Then once you are like Bud's you can tell him and see how he reacts. If he just go's oh well he is a good friend, if he takes awhile he may be trying to adjust, if he flips out and does mean things then your better without him.
If you really like him, then its gonna be hard because if he is like a BIG Jock type he may tell other and it could be ugly so u really need to be close to someone and be 150% sure they wont tell. That why its a crush, some always can get hurt.

[staying_alive]

Stop thinking about it, you already know he's homophobic and he thinks you're straight. Do NOT tell him that you like him, that is probably the dumbest idea i've ever heard in my life. That would be a nightmare for you and for him. Just become better friends with him as time goes on and see what happens. Be patient and don't rush anything because of your hormones.

[ILOVEYOU]

forget him, its the only way.