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killfriday
February 18th, 2009, 07:42 AM
I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend, unless you count a guy over the net, which lasted only around a week or so..I haven't met a guy in school or anywhere else for that matter who is interested in me more than a friend,and it's biting away at me because everyone around me is either involved in a relationship,or has been. Recently, i've been speaking to a guy over the net who seems to like me more than just a friend. He compliments me, says all these amazing things to me, and is really sweet. I was a bit wary at first, as I don't trust people easily, but he seemed genuine..until one day he turned on his webcam and asked me to say hello to his girlfriend. I got really pissed off and stopped talking to him for awhile, but in january he started talking to me again. I didn't mention anything about the girlfriend incident, and was stand offish towards him,but then he started talking to me more often, and said stuff like he was depressed when I wasn't around, and he felt like he needed to talk to me. Me, being the idiot, actually fell for all of this and actually confessed that I had a crush on him. I don't know if he really means it, and I know he still has a girlfriend. I know he probably doesn't think about me the way I think of him but i can't stop thinking about him and it's really screwing my perspective up.
Any advice?

Sage
February 18th, 2009, 10:50 AM
Internet relationships require an absurdly, mind-boggling amount of trust. You clearly can't trust this guy. Break it off.

As for real life? Who cares? If you really want a boyfriend, then be friendly and flirt with guys. Honestly, there's very few guys who'll turn you down. Shit, we're exponentially more desperate than you girls. Go for it.

GiZzLe
February 18th, 2009, 11:22 AM
well, having a relationship over the internet is kinda dangerous.......but anywho, (not the actual user, ima friend) i haven't had one since the fifth grade, if u count elementary crushes. my other friend is a sophmore, and she just got into a deep relationship after not having one FOREVER!!!!!!! so she is kinda keeping me holding on, but just kinda flirt a little, and wait for it. i noe ur tired of waiting, but it is worth it.
REAL USER (haha)
I think you should jst stay GOOD friends for right now, jst gt 2 kno him as much as u can...... Trust me itz worth it!!!!! (hee hee) Sorry HIPER!!!! >.<
REMINDER: there is 2 ppl who are on my user
ME and MY ADOPTED sister (hee hee)
bye