View Full Version : Am I Gay?
SarahRocks1245
February 17th, 2009, 10:54 PM
ok ive been so confused for so long now questioning if im gay..
the fact is i like girls but seeing guys turns me on and i hve masturbated over both types of porn but when it comes to gay porn after i have came i feel slightly sick and i REALLY dont ant o be gay..
and for fact nietther bi i want to be straight..
please help and if uv had the same problem have u got any tips how u turnes straight..:what:
Ender
February 17th, 2009, 11:03 PM
It's okay to feel attracted to men and not be gay or bi. If u luv girls b str8, but u can still look at guys if it gets u goin.
Skylar15
February 17th, 2009, 11:04 PM
its normal to like both boys and girls
zachattack
February 17th, 2009, 11:09 PM
No ur not gay it's just a period in life i've went thru it and i can say nuthin turns a guy on more than girls.lmao!!!
Requin
February 18th, 2009, 05:36 AM
It's normal dude! It's a stage of puberty that a lot of guys have. It's normally just a phase that comes and goes as it will throughout puberty. It will go eventuallly.
So, don't worry.
If you want more info about sexuality etc..go to val's amazing sticky about it...here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18215).
Also, moving to teen sexuality.
Θάνατος
February 18th, 2009, 05:54 AM
It's normal dude! It's a stage of puberty that a lot of guys have. It's normally just a phase that comes and goes as it will throughout puberty. It will go eventuallly.
So, don't worry.
If you want more info about sexuality etc..go to Val's amazing sticky about it...here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=18215).
Also, moving to teen sexuality.
I agree totally here.
There is nothing wrong with looking at gay or straight porn. To be honest I find straight porn really degrading to women.
I think that you are just going through a stage right now your thinking about being gay or bi is just hormones probably.
Don't worry about every guy goes through this at one time during puberty.
Donkey
February 18th, 2009, 06:41 AM
You'll probably be straight... But your hormones are a bit umm... mad at the moment because your in puberty.. and usually they make people attracted to men, and very horny over either.. other stuff too which is unneeded at the moment.
Yeah you're normal, and fine.
Bigboy1
February 18th, 2009, 07:31 AM
I would say that you are GAY(maybe Bi or perhaps Curious
Donkey
February 18th, 2009, 09:45 AM
I would say that you are GAY(maybe Bi or perhaps Curious
Wtf are you on about? If he likes girls he can't be gay anyway..
"gay porn after i have came i feel slightly sick" Curious is as far as it's going.
SarahRocks1245
February 18th, 2009, 02:56 PM
thank you so much that makes me feel much better
ChickenMania
February 18th, 2009, 03:52 PM
I'm 100% straight but my boner gets up by looking at gay porn, I think it's because of the act of sex that you're looking at and the fact that they are naked also triggers your boner and that doesn't mean you're attracted to the men at all.
nick
February 18th, 2009, 06:08 PM
ok ive been so confused for so long now questioning if im gay..
the fact is i like girls but seeing guys turns me on and i hve masturbated over both types of porn but when it comes to gay porn after i have came i feel slightly sick and i REALLY dont ant o be gay..
and for fact nietther bi i want to be straight..
please help and if uv had the same problem have u got any tips how u turnes straight..:what:
To be honest I don't think anyone can tell from this whether you're straight, gay or bi. It sounds to me as if you probably are gay or bi but in denial, thats what makes you feel sick because its not what you want. You may be just curious like most people above think, who knows.
What I do feel sure about is that there's nothing you can do to "turn straight", either you are or you aren't. So you have to be honest to yourself and accept what life throws at you. I'm pretty sure I'm bi, but its not what I'd choose, but its like saying I'd rather be blond (not really, just an example) or 6 foot tall (I'm short), waste of time worrying about it, these things cant be changed.
Time will tell, you'll know when things settle, what your orientation is, then whatever it is thats part of you, it cant be changed, so accept it & move on.
rugbykidd
February 18th, 2009, 06:54 PM
Hey im 15 and having the same problem.. just thought ud like to know that im here to talk.. add me on msn if u like:
[email protected]
fishstiks04
March 17th, 2009, 04:36 PM
im the same way its so weird after im done whacking gay porn sounds so gross
Ender
March 17th, 2009, 07:49 PM
To be honest I don't think anyone can tell from this whether you're straight, gay or bi. It sounds to me as if you probably are gay or bi but in denial, thats what makes you feel sick because its not what you want. You may be just curious like most people above think, who knows.
What I do feel sure about is that there's nothing you can do to "turn straight", either you are or you aren't. So you have to be honest to yourself and accept what life throws at you. I'm pretty sure I'm bi, but its not what I'd choose, but its like saying I'd rather be blond (not really, just an example) or 6 foot tall (I'm short), waste of time worrying about it, these things cant be changed.
Time will tell, you'll know when things settle, what your orientation is, then whatever it is thats part of you, it cant be changed, so accept it & move on.
Wow.....extremely impressive
FearForMySanity
March 21st, 2009, 10:16 PM
Gerontius has got it.
You could be straight, you could be bi, maybe you're gay. Don't jump to conclusions, but don't deny what you know to be true, either. Both are unhealthy and will probably lead to unhappiness in the future. Best to ride it out, see what happens, and if you're straight, you're straight, if you're bi, you're bi, etc. If you aren't straight, there's nothing you can really do about it except deny yourself of sexuality. It's really not so bad, unless you're just absolutely surrounded by bigoted jerks.
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