View Full Version : guys not really growing on me like they used to
DarkWingedAngel
February 17th, 2009, 08:43 PM
I don't know whats up with me.
I know im ether lesbian or bi im just not sure anymore!
I have a wonderful girlfriend, and im really happy when im with her.
The thought that I might not even like guys is really getting to me.
I just don't see guys like I used to.
I don't know what i should do.
MysticalBurrito
February 17th, 2009, 08:50 PM
Well you told me you thought a couple certain guys where cute
DarkWingedAngel
February 17th, 2009, 08:57 PM
looks don't define everything you know
i mean i can totally think a gut looks cute
but nothing else
i find myself looking more and more at girls instead of guys
The Batman
February 17th, 2009, 09:48 PM
Maybe your just trying to rush into your sexuality just relax and things will come in their own time.
byee
February 17th, 2009, 10:46 PM
Desi, there are a lot of reasons why guys might not be appealing to you right now, and the only way to know for sure what the reason is, would be to get involved with them and see how it feels for you. Just spend time with them and be with them and see what comes up for you inside, what you're reaction and feelings are for them.
I know there's this tendency to want to clarify the ambiguity b/c it's so uncomfortable, but sometimes it's best to tolerate it long enough to get the info and experience you need to make an accurate determination of your feelings.
DarkWingedAngel
February 18th, 2009, 05:00 PM
well this is the thing
I love my girlfriend and she means the world to me
when im with her im happy
there's just a spark when im with her
that never really happened with guys
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