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Natoja12
February 17th, 2009, 07:09 PM
my friend came to me with this problem and im not sure wwhat to say to her. she says everytime she masturbates to porn she feels guilty cuz her parents dont no. and theres no way she'll ever tell them.

Patchy
February 17th, 2009, 07:13 PM
Understandable, in this day in age parents find it hard to be open with kids about sex and pornography, they probably know she knows of it, just can't imagine their little daughter using it as a masturbation aid.

I would tell her that it is natural and lots of girls do use it as an aid, even boys use it.

she may feel guilty as well if its against her religion etc.


hope this helps :)

AllThatIsLeft
February 17th, 2009, 07:16 PM
Some things are better kept from our parents, that does not make it wrong. It is just very personal. there is nothing wrong about masturbating to porn. But that depends on how you see it, everyone has their own opinions about stuff. i just wouldn't let parent's lack of knowledge of her doing be a reason.

Halibut
February 20th, 2009, 12:39 AM
i know i sure did when i started. but really its just exploring yoru body . whats wrong with that. and there is no need for gulit :)

ILOVEYOU
February 20th, 2009, 07:43 AM
its neutral, i feel guilty anytime i do that, thats because she accepts God

cheerleader.babe.
February 20th, 2009, 07:28 PM
Its very normal.
I think every girl probably does it once in their life.
they just dont want to tell anybody.
Just tell her the time will come for her parents to realize that she has grown up
and started doing stuff like this.

ILOVEYOU
February 22nd, 2009, 03:04 PM
its normal, so tell your friend "its normal" "D

OnlyByTheNight.
February 22nd, 2009, 07:12 PM
Its natural and she shouldnt feel bad for liking porn. Tell her that is normal for teenagers to do and not to worry about her parents as they prob dont even want to know about their daughter in that way.

Buggahh
February 24th, 2009, 01:54 PM
If she doesnt want them to know then she should erase it from the history on the computer if shes watching it on the net. Alot of people use porn as a way of getting more sexual pleasure, its nothing to be ashamed of, and she doesnt need to tell anyone anything if she doesnt want to.

goog
March 7th, 2009, 12:09 AM
I too agree that it is normal as long as you're not using it eccessively, because then you can get addicted and look at it too much.

Triceratops
March 7th, 2009, 01:28 PM
Obviously, the fact that she masterbates to porn is best kept secret from her parents.
It is normal to feel guilty about it, but she shouldn't feel ashamed of it.

NeedyTeen
March 7th, 2009, 03:40 PM
I once got that feeling when I saw a picture of a penus. I felt better after a while though.

ILOVEYOU
March 8th, 2009, 04:23 AM
LOL . :D its not really that Scary. :)

SlappyTwinkle
July 21st, 2009, 04:49 PM
i would tell her that's normal, because it is, tons of people look at porn while masturbating.

BlackenedSilver
July 21st, 2009, 04:50 PM
Please don't bump old threads :locked: