Holding Hands

[staying_alive]

Okay with my first girlfriend, we held hands like just...holding eachothers hands i guess. With my second girlfriend, we had our fingers intertwined. Now, i'm thinking about a third girl and i'm worried about embarrassing myself with which way to hold hands. Should we just hold them or fingers intertwined? Which way do you prefer?

[Donkey]

Cupped but whatever she or you like. No one is there to judge you how you hold your girlfriend's hand... Do what you like ;)

[Aηdy]

Fingers intertwined

Either way though, I love it!

[BlackenedSilver]

Fingers intertwined

Either way though, I love it!


I Agree! :yes: Intertwined is the best!

[Donkey]

Holding hands is strange... lol

[Aηdy]

I Agree! :yes: Intertwined is the best!

Yeah it's great :)

[IAMWILL]

Ya I like intertwined for a lot of reasons. First, cupping your hands just kinda feels weird, and you don't have much freedom. Secondly, when you intertwine your hands, you can play with each other, and intertwining is like a way of saying "we complete each other and share same qualities and ideals" while cupping hands is like saying "we saw each other, turned around, and stared." kinda.

[Gumleaf]

my girlfriend and i do fingers intertwined. its nice, feels more personal and special. definetly they way to go once you are in a relationship. but if its a new relationship, you just do it by feel. maybe she'll intertwine them herself? just don't panic, just do what feels comfortable and natural to you.

[Θάνατος]

I have done both but usually it is with our fingers intertwined.

[Donkey]

Intertwined makes my fingers hurt

[GiZzLe]

Well i do both it doesnt really matter to me, but mostly intertwined. It feels special. My sister that are twins does it intertwined

[AutumnDae]

Intertwined is my favorite. It makes me feel....closer? I don't know, I just like intertwined better.

Holding hands is like one of my favorite things to do. :)

[scatman]

my hands usually sweat alot but they dont when im holding her hands its weird but i perfer the non intertwined kind

[AllThatIsLeft]

interwined FTW.

it's a special, like completing eachother. and claiming them yours.

[theOperaGhost]

I do intertwined, but either way is fine really.

[Patchy]

Intertwined, but my gf sometimes does it the other way, I just go with what way she likes :)

[LaurenEsMagical]

you can always just put your hand towards hers and see how she grabs it. that's what I usually do, but maybe that's just because I'm the girl. I don't know. But usually if I'm just holding hands with a guy to be flirty or something I do it cupped, but when I actually like the guy I do it intertwined. It's more relationshipy I guess