Am I curious?

[clr9823]

I have an emotional attraction to a guy as well as a physical one. I assumed that I was gay and went on in life until I thought to myself "Why don't I fancy any other guys?". I only fancy/have fancied one guy, ain't attracted to gay porn and fancy girls, so now I am really confused. What am I:confused:?

[Skylar15]

I have an emotional attraction to a guy as well as a physical one. I assumed that I was gay and went on in life until I thought to myself "Why don't I fancy any other guys?". I only fancy/have fancied one guy, ain't attracted to gay porn and fancy girls, so now I am really confused. What am I:confused:?

i have the same problem

[irishdude695]

Only you can really decide if you are gay, straight, bisexual etc... I know that really doesn't help, sorry. Maybe it was just something about that one guy, that made you attracted to him. With puberty and everything it could just be all the hormones that is making you feel that way. Only you can decide....sorry.

[Oblivion]

Moved to teen sexuality

[Bigboy1]

i would probably say your curious but don't rule out the gay option

[Θάνατος]

Well my question is do you still like this guy? If you don't then it was a phase that you were going through. There is a time when all of us go through where we not only think about the same sex but are actually are attracted to the same sex.

I would think that it was just the hormones at the time because you have stated you don't like gay porn and you like girls.

One thing to remember that you are still going through puberty and you should wait for your hormones to settle down before you decide what your sexuality is.

I hope this has helped you.

[Furn_93]

Ah, I had the same thing. Eventually I figured I was bi.

But it seems if you only fancy one guy, you probably are curious. If was you fancied other guys, you'd be bi. But you aren't straight, but probably not gay seeing as you fancy girls. Not everyone is attracted to gay porn, in fact many gay teens prefer to think of doing it with 'someone' they know, because its more of a turn on. Do you get one off by that 'guy' or do the fantasies involve other guys you know?

[clr9823]

I have fancied this guy for about 6 months. If I don't see him I start to lose some of the attraction but when I see him again I remember why I was attracted.
I only have fantasies about this guy, not other guys, but I find other guys hot.

[Skylar15]

i think that i am more gay

[byee]

I think you might 'only' be fourteen. Not 'gay', or 'bi', or 'straight', ftm. Just 14.

It takes time to sort out what your sexuality is, and just b/c you're attracted to someone (be it physically or emotionally, or some combo of the 2) doesn't mean much of anything long term.


There's often this desire to reduce the discomfort of ambiguity by rushing a decision, by labelling yourself prematurely. It's better to sit with the discomfort for a while longer and get some experience before doing that, however, b/c in the long run, the more experience you have, the more confident you can be in your conclusion.

Give it time, be involved with lots of people (not just sexually!), and it will all become clearer to you in time.

[TreylearnsBest]

ur probably jus letting ur hormones take over
and ur probably jus bi curious

[Aspiringanonymous]

Please do not bump threads more than one month old :locked: