Shy Girl

[ILOVEYOU]

Hey,
i Love a girl, i see her every week at streets. i'm a little shy about starting the relationship, and she is shy too, i dont know what to do now, and i'm kind of "in love of her" now, i cant stop thinking her,
whats your advice for me? How can i start talking with her? dont forget i'm shy about her. Thanks :D

[Requin]

So this girl is just off the street?? Do you know her? If you do or don't. You need to, talk to her more, go somewhere with her.
Hang out etc.

Talking and getting to know is the best way really.
Also, moving to relationships and dating.

[ILOVEYOU]

lol, no, she usually come out on thursdays nights and i see her.
thank you, but is it good to talk to her mother or someone?
because anytime i see her, i JUST STOP MOVING AND START THINKING, like ICE. i really dont know what to do, I LOVE HER ! ! ! !. and unfortunately, i cant start talking with her.

[Requin]

If you love her....and I know it's hard. But you've got to be calm about it. Before you see her, the night before or something, prepare what your going to say, run it over in your head. Get some practice at talking to her, that way, your confidence will be much stronger, and you'll have something to say apart from "err, ummm, ooooh...hi". :-)

It's fine to be a little nervous and shy. It's normal. A lot of guys have that trouble.
Also, before you are just about to talk with her/see her. Take a deep breath, stroll over and talk...

Talking is the most powerful love tool in the kit. And no one seems to use it.
I hope it all turns out well btw. It sounds like you've really gone for her.

[ILOVEYOU]

great advice, but my problem is What To Say? i know if i start talking to her, i will say "aaaaa, hmmm, Haaa, Hi" LOL, any advice for what to say to her? i can make myself Go to her, but i dont really know what to say. i know i gotta say "Hi, i'm mehrdad and can we be friends?" but i Know i Cant Say That......

[Requin]

If she knows you. Walk up to her, say "Hi" and smile!!! Smiling is the best way to communicate on friendly terms with someone. It works. :-)

After that...ask where she's going etc..can you tag along?? you know, small talk, etc etc.
So keep the talk to small. No flirting..not to early, that's a bad idea.
You get what I mean?

[ILOVEYOU]

Great IDEA Dude, thank you, yeah i got your meaning, she khows me but i'm not sure will she answer me or not, because she is a little shy and i cant really understant does she like to have a BF or something.

[Requin]

Try it out and see dude!!! Best of luck. Hope it goes well for you. :-)
Remember to take it slow but steady.

And smile!

[ILOVEYOU]

Haha, thank you Dude, i'll let you know how its going. Thanks again :)

[Skeln]

Well...sopmeone beat me to the advice part. All I can do now is offer encouragement. Good luck! As said before, smile and small talk.

[ILOVEYOU]

:D Thanks, I'll let you all know how its going at this topic then. Thanks Again :)

[bels]

why dont you just start with the simple hey, then see where it goes from there?

[ILOVEYOU]

thats one thing, yeah, its nice, so you mean, just to say "hey" with smile :) ?