Im tired of it all

[crazydude_14]

my mom tries to keep me and my girlfriend apart she doesn't want me with her. my girlfriend isn't a bad person. my mom tries to blame my bad grades on her and its bullshit because if it wasn't for her i wouldn't be getting them up. my mom is really starting to treat me like shit. no matter what i do it isn't good enough. it makes no since my older brother got to do everything when he was my age he even got arrested and shit like that. i even get a job so i dont have to bother her for money and what does she do takes some of it and doesn't tell me. and a few months later tells me that she borrowed some money. im just tired of it all. and my so called best friend is turning into a complete asshole that i dont want to be around anymore. i just want to run away, so far away that no one could find me just start a whole new life somewhere else. my mom claims that she wants me to be happy but she has to be lying cause all i want is to be able to hang out with my girlfriend and she basically tells me to f*** off. she is so cold hearted my gf's uncle died and her whole family wanted me to go to the funeral and my mom told me that there was no way in h*ll that i could go. she doesn't want me to do drugs or drink or anything like that but all she is doing is pushing me towards it. what should i do?

[BuryYourFlame]

sounds like your mother is just being the normal over-protective type, you could try just talking with her, waiting for the right time to talk to her about it can make all the difference.

You just need to ask her why you cant do those things and hopefully she will give you a straight out answer.

[IAMWILL]

Ya your mom is going over-protective on you. But also, she knows that you enduring puberty right now, but she probably doesn't understand how hormones play out, and how quickly people develop. I have a feeling she's concerned that soon you will be close to or fully matured, an able to take care of yourself, so she's doing all she can to have attention from you before you "disappear". She probably went through the same thing as a kid, wether you believe it or not, so she's trying to treat you the same way her parents treated her. Don't worry, if you sit her down and talk to her, and truly express how you feel without crying or yelling, she will understand more.

Overall summary: Your mom's being overprotective because she's worried about you becoming a man.

[Midsummer Nights]

You just need to talk to her and tell her unfair you think she's being to you. Tell her that she let your brother do whatever at your age, and you don't see why you can't. If she has a reason, she'll tell you. If not, hopefully she'll give you a little more freedom. Who knows? Maybe she'll even end up liking you gf.

P.S. Don't cuss at her, that won't help. ;)

[postloveaffliction]

talking always solves cases like these. explain to her everything that you need to explain. that, the girl's the one whos inspiring you to get your grades up. it might work. dont give up easily(;

[Gumleaf]

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