Trouble at school

[Pizza Boy]

I'm 13 and the youngest in my grade. I hit puberty about 11 1/2 or 12 All my friends are flying through puberty and i'm left in the dust. I cant get a GF because they think i don't have pubes or a bigger penis. I'm a guy who likes to have a GF around. I never get invited to parties or go to the movies anymore. People have been putting stuff into their heads. I don't know what to do. My dad wants me to stay back a grade. I don't want to...Any suggestions?

[aid821]

Hey dude, i know you've prob heard this before but you're obviously growing at a slower rate than ur friends. the bad news is you'll have to wait as your body only grows as a fast as it naturally does. soon enough you'll hit your growth spurt and grow like crazy, maybe even bigger than your friends. i know it seems like your missing out on stuff i.e GF movies etc but remember, you you have plenty of years for that. i'd suggest you keep trying with the ladies and eventually you'll land a nice one. as for staying back a grade, are you struggling in the year you're in? that may be the reason your dad wants u to stay back? dio you show the work you do to your dad or show him your school report?

[ian est la bombe]

i feel for you dude,
im 15 and im shorter than everyone,
luckily I still have a lot of friends that i've known since KINDERGARTEN and they don't seem to be going anywhere,

but as for you, maybe you need to find some better friends, not ones that will leave you just because you are developing slower then them. and for staying back a grade, unless you are failing everything, i see no reason for your dad to have to keep you back. OH and the ladies! trust me there will be one out there that will see the MAN inside you.

[Cloudfire]

Firstly, everybody grows at a different rate, there are 15/16 year olds that have a very little amount of pubes, so you don't have the worst of it.

Secondly, you wouldn't be looking for a girlfriend that is only interested in the size of your penis.

Also, your dad may want you to stay back because your grades might not be that good. If your grades are good, and he's only talking about your age, or stuff like that, just say no. School's about learning, not how big/old you are.

[Cloud]

A girl shouldnt want oyu anymore or less by the size of your penis or amount of pubes nad if they do they are shallow. if they really care about you that wont matter to them.
and since whrn do 13 year old girls care about that sort of stuff that should even be going through their minds.
if ur not getting invited maybe its cos your friends feel your isolating yuorself from them so y font u invite them to the movies or a party just to reconnect with them adn let them kno u still want to do that sutff.

[Skeln]

Yeah, with the ladies I would just give it time. No use getting a girlfriend who only cares for your body and not your personality. Also, everage relationships for highschool (i'm guessing you're in 9th grade because you said your the youngest stating that most are 14 and that's the 9th grade average age) last about 3-4 months. not worth it. just wait for that special someone. as for your friends, if they don't invite you and don't accept you as much because of your size and age then they aren't your friends and I suggest getting new ones. It's hard, I know but it's worth it in the end. SAnd only bad grades will set you back, so if you have bad grades then you shouldn't have a girlfriend anyways! Hate to be mean but yeah, if you dont have one and have bad grades, I can only imagine what would happen if you get a g/f. Just focus on school.

[Ender]

im in the same situation