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DaboiIndaShade
February 14th, 2009, 10:55 AM
ok my friend has a g/f and i have g/f and he didnt have a condom and they were in the moment so they went ahead and did it he said you pull it out but doesnt precum cause pregnancy i mean me and my g/f r planning to do i have condoms but do u think pulling it out works i wont do it but want to see if other people have done it or do it:confused:

Silverfist64
February 14th, 2009, 11:05 AM
Well theres a chance that it could cause pregnancy because it does contain sperm but theres so little of it, it most likely wouldn't. However, don't take the risk and just use a condom. Theres also the possibility that he wouldn't have pulled it out fast enough and...well...now he has a problem.

lotrfanjon
February 14th, 2009, 12:13 PM
NEGATIVE! Pulling your penis out before ejaculation is just as bad as leaving it in there without a condom or any sort of protection. Besides, how old are you? If you are in fact not even 15 yet, you shouldn't be having sex anyways. Are you prepared for the consequences?? Why do younger and younger people insist on having sex, we have a thing called masturbation, do that instead.

DaboiIndaShade
February 14th, 2009, 12:20 PM
this is not me im talking about its my friend! im just saying whats your opinion and he is 15 this is not about me!

iJack
February 14th, 2009, 12:25 PM
Calm down dude. Its illegal, no sex for him or you.

DaboiIndaShade
February 14th, 2009, 12:27 PM
its not illegal what planet ur from lol it is definetly not illegal

lotrfanjon
February 14th, 2009, 12:28 PM
I know, but I also read some of your other posts that say you are going to have sex. I'm just strongly urging you to reconsider and wait, unless you are prepared to handle a child and/or all the other consequences. I'm not trying to insult you or your friend, im just trying to prevent you from doing something you regret, and i'm thinking about a child that could be the result of that mistake.

DaboiIndaShade
February 14th, 2009, 12:31 PM
omg i use condoms im talking about a friend thats his problem im just curious what i cant ask questions all im getting is stupid replies i came to this site for help not negativity

Requin
February 14th, 2009, 12:39 PM
Okay. First, calm down. Breath in and out...in and out....

its not illegal what planet ur from lol it is definetly not illegal

Umm, your friends 15 right? So it's illegal to have sex under 16 in the UK. And in america I think it's 21??? Or 18 not sure. But both ages are over 15. So no sex for your friend. It's illegal and is a bad idea.
AND, please do not disregard what others say, they are only trying to help remember.

I couldn't understand what your trying to ask..but if your friend wears a condom, make sure he ejaculates with the condom on during sex, then pull out from the women and take off the condom and throw it away.

lotrfanjon
February 14th, 2009, 12:40 PM
I'm not being negative. I answered your question, not using a condom and just pulling it out is just as bad as leaving it in there. And "omg i use condoms", do you think they work every time? Are you willing to take the chance of bringing a kid into this world? Did you hear about the 13 year old kid in the UK, who looks like he's about 7 or 8, who concieved a child when he was 12? Someone your age (and younger and many older) are not mentally and physically prepared to be having sexual intercourse.

staying_alive
February 14th, 2009, 01:19 PM
I believe in the U.S. it's by state, some are 16, some 18, etc. Using a condom is the sure way to avoid pregnancy. Don't see how fast you can pull out, it ruins the moment and makes you worried that you just made the biggest mistake of your life.

Silverfist64
February 14th, 2009, 01:30 PM
Umm, your friends 15 right? So it's illegal to have sex under 16 in the UK. And in america I think it's 21??? Or 18 not sure. But both ages are over 15. So no sex for your friend. It's illegal and is a bad idea.

Yea, in america it varies by state. In Pennsylvania its legal at 14.

check it
February 14th, 2009, 01:34 PM
even if you pull out... you can still get her preggo because of precum

theOperaGhost
February 14th, 2009, 03:59 PM
Pulling out doesn't prevent STDs and there is still a possibility of getting pregnant. It's a stupid idea. Use a damn condom or better yet, don't have sex at all!!

Skeln
February 14th, 2009, 10:18 PM
I agree, don't have sex at all! Better off in the long run. precum has just as much chance of getting someone pregnant as ejaculating. It only takes one sperm, and in precum there is thousands. Have your friend use a comdem! Then again, even a condem isn't 100% guarantee. No sex! And actually, I think the law is that if someone over 18 has sex with someone under 18, it's illegal. Or if there's a 3-year difference in age for under 18. But each state is different in the U.S., and each one has different laws.

iJack
February 14th, 2009, 10:31 PM
its not illegal what planet ur from lol it is definetly not illegal
Yea, actually it is very illegal.
omg i use condoms im talking about a friend thats his problem im just curious what i cant ask questions all im getting is stupid replies i came to this site for help not negativity
You didnt get negativity, you got the truth.

Axellance
February 14th, 2009, 10:42 PM
omg i use condoms im talking about a friend thats his problem im just curious what i cant ask questions all im getting is stupid replies i came to this site for help not negativity

you can get a girl pregnant with a condom and that is what he is getting at...it was actually good advice and you should take it into consideration.

Unfortunately too many teens think that pulling out will prevent pregnancy, it does little to nothing.

While it is technically illegal to have sex at that age its rare that people get in trouble for it...at least in the us...because its so common.

NickNightcrawler
February 14th, 2009, 10:58 PM
It probably won't but, you don't want to take the chance.

crazydude_14
February 15th, 2009, 12:54 AM
honestly guys if your gonna be in a serious relationship and gonna have sex have her get birth control. cause then you get to let it go in her and you wont have a kid at 15

Prince_of_Peace
February 15th, 2009, 01:03 AM
you will reap what you sow...trust me.

better refrain from having sex.

johnw7878
February 15th, 2009, 03:39 AM
All I know is this....Having sex is your choice but being educated on it is another..you think wearing a condom is ok and you won't get a girl pregnant well not all of the time this works..Condoms aren't 100% safe or prevenative of getting someone pregnant or from catching an std.

Oblivion
February 15th, 2009, 03:43 AM
Pulling out doesn't prevent STDs and there is still a possibility of getting pregnant. It's a stupid idea. Use a damn condom or better yet, don't have sex at all!!

Yep.
If you pull out before full ejaculation, there is both the same risk of STD/I, and a risk of pregnancy form the pre cum.
Even with a condom there is a risk of both.

This is a life choice. Make a good decision.

Silverfist64
February 15th, 2009, 07:49 PM
It only takes one sperm, and in precum there is thousands.

Actually it takes quite alot of sperm to break through the protective barrier of the egg cell but once thats gone then yea....uno spermo

IAMWILL
February 15th, 2009, 11:44 PM
All im going to say is always wear a condom. Always

Donkey
February 16th, 2009, 07:18 AM
Precum usually contains old sperm from your last ejaculation which may or may not be young enough to penetrate a girl. Therefore, taking it out is not going to work...

Just use a condom. Or don't have sex at your age [depending on your age..]

DarkWingedAngel
February 16th, 2009, 10:13 AM
i think it is a bad idea
in fact it is how one of my friends got pregnant because she thought if he pulled out she wouldn't get pregnant... wrong she now has no life
now unless you want the chance of having no life i suggest you use a condom or don't have sex at all

Cloud
February 16th, 2009, 02:52 PM
use a condom why does everyone try and cut corners on this sorta stuff just use a condom cos pulling out still has a much higher risk of stds and the precum ocntains sperm also so that could get her pregnant. i odnt see why youd want to even bother risking it just use a dam condom

HikaruTheHunter
March 2nd, 2009, 03:27 AM
ok my friend has a g/f and i have g/f and he didnt have a condom and they were in the moment so they went ahead and did it he said you pull it out but doesnt precum cause pregnancy i mean me and my g/f r planning to do i have condoms but do u think pulling it out works i wont do it but want to see if other people have done it or do it:confused:

Okay nope. Pulling out is a big deal. When you pull out before you cum, you may THINK that you won't risk the girl's pregnancy, but you are wrong. There is a 84% chance that you release precum and it swam into the uterus and to fertilize the egg. So just use a condom.

LKSora
March 2nd, 2009, 10:32 AM
ok my friend has a g/f and i have g/f and he didnt have a condom and they were in the moment so they went ahead and did it he said you pull it out but doesnt precum cause pregnancy i mean me and my g/f r planning to do i have condoms but do u think pulling it out works i wont do it but want to see if other people have done it or do it:confused:

no
it's not
it's a lot of risk to do this
and why?
if you pull it out you just don't enjoy anything
+plus i know a lot of girls that got pregnant this way

digzchickz
March 2nd, 2009, 11:06 AM
Yeah, pulling out is not reliable, not to mention it isn't the easiest thing to do either. You kind of get into a rhythm of thrusting and the better it starts feeling and the closer you get to ejaculation, the more you want to push, especially during the orgasm... it takes a lot of effort to overcome that feeling.

byee
March 2nd, 2009, 02:44 PM
HEY! LISTEN UP! (especially the 5 of you that got this one wrong).

Pulling out does NOT work, the odds are overwhelmingly against you, at some point if you keep doing this, she'll get pregnant.

Millions of sperm cells are present in the fluids which leak out prior to ejaculation (when, literally, hundreds of millions of sperm cells are present), and that only one is required for fertilization/pregnancy to occur. So, eventhough pulling out protects you from the onslaught of hundreds of millions (again, not an exaggeration), it doesn't protect from the millions before. And, remember, only one is needed!

Wear the condom the whole time.

Raikage
March 2nd, 2009, 04:55 PM
You should always wear a condom.
with pulling out for all you know you could of already cummed a little and that can be enough to get your partner pregnant, or you could get too carried away and not pull out at all.. far too risky

Antares
March 2nd, 2009, 05:24 PM
To make this simple.

No.

Use a condom.



There are many reasons you should. STDs ring a bell??? lol (rhymes)

notsure101
March 2nd, 2009, 10:13 PM
Better be safe and wear a condom, because i did and something happened but then something else happened and then something else happened which im not goin to go into

Clawhammer
March 2nd, 2009, 10:28 PM
If I were you, I would wait. All the others on here have said it all. Just wait.

mathew911
March 3rd, 2009, 01:12 PM
It may get a girl pregnant even if you cum outyside her. I know of one case like that, it happened to one of my friends. Condoms are much much better choice.

HikaruTheHunter
March 5th, 2009, 06:46 PM
HEY! LISTEN UP! (especially the 5 of you that got this one wrong).

Pulling out does NOT work, the odds are overwhelmingly against you, at some point if you keep doing this, she'll get pregnant.

Millions of sperm cells are present in the fluids which leak out prior to ejaculation (when, literally, hundreds of millions of sperm cells are present), and that only one is required for fertilization/pregnancy to occur. So, eventhough pulling out protects you from the onslaught of hundreds of millions (again, not an exaggeration), it doesn't protect from the millions before. And, remember, only one is needed!

Wear the condom the whole time.

Was I one of the one's who got it wrong? XD

nick
March 5th, 2009, 07:12 PM
There's a lot of good advice here, and some less honest. My take on it is:-

pulling out early is not an option. as others have said there's precum and other dribbles that can result in a pregnancy, use condom
whilst its true that condoms are not 100% reliable they're pretty damn near when used properly

Justin16
March 6th, 2009, 02:54 AM
ok my friend has a g/f and i have g/f and he didnt have a condom and they were in the moment so they went ahead and did it he said you pull it out but doesnt precum cause pregnancy i mean me and my g/f r planning to do i have condoms but do u think pulling it out works i wont do it but want to see if other people have done it or do it:confused:I prefer not wearing a condom and pull out and my girlfriend has not got pregnant yet.

simpleasthat
March 6th, 2009, 03:09 AM
well there is the risky way of having sex inbetween each period (15 days after her previous one) but of course there is still the risk of harmful, annoying and hard to eradicate STIs such as :

* Chlamydia
* Genital Herpes
* Gonorrhoea
* HIV/AIDS
* Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
* Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV)
* Syphilis

and trust me these aren't pretty. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_disease has a big list of every type

HikaruTheHunter
March 6th, 2009, 03:09 AM
I prefer not wearing a condom and pull out and my girlfriend has not got pregnant yet.

Wrong. Even though she has not become pregnant, she is still likely to. Always wear a condom, unless you want that type of burden on your shoulders. Pulling out works 26% of the time; leaving 84% at risk.