ummm am i ready and is this normal plz help

[DaboiIndaShade]

:confused:hey well i have a g/f and she wants to do it lol and im not confident on my size im a late bloomer im 14 weigh like 90pounds lol i know and just hit 5 feet tall and my penis is exactly 4 inch do u think if she really loved me she wouldnt care. thnx for listening guys!:confused:

[Oblivion]

If she really loves you, she shouldn't care.
And 4" isn't small.


But honestly, I don't think either of you are ready. If you are worried about her making fun of you, why would you have sex with her? What's the advantage?
At 14 there isn't one. Would you trade 30 minutes of pleasure for the chance of pregnancy, and STDs?

[DaboiIndaShade]

hmmm true true we are both virgins so no stds we been together 1 year and a half alot in teenage years lol and it valentines day tommoroow and really 4inch aint small

[byee]

Well, it's not so much about your size, you know. It's about your emotional (and physical) readiness for sex.

Sex is more than physical, it's really a very emotional experience. And in much the same way your body is growing and developing, so is your brain. And at 14, both are really at the beginning of that development.

To fully appreciate sex, it's wisest to be fully developed both physically and emotionally, and for that to happen, you'd do well to wait a while.

There are other ways of connecting with your girlfriend that allow you to be close and to share, without the risks of being disappointed by having sex prematurely.

[DaboiIndaShade]

sam my man thnx though ima leave it to her ima bring a rubber just in case. like what othere non intercousse activities can we do if u can explain lol if u can

[iceyfresh]

4 isnt small for your age some people on this site i think might stretch the truth about there sizes average adult is 6 inch your fine. And if she really likes you she wont mind. Id say go for it.

[Prince_of_Peace]

Sex is for people who are physically and emotionally mature and it is for procreation (have babies). If you will just fool around wherein you are way to young to have sex (that is why I am still a virgin), you should not really being doing it because of this. Save sex for marriage. I do not think you and I ready for fatherhood. Your penis size is fine, but the time is not now.

[DaboiIndaShade]

thnx for the advice guys i think ima go for it and i kno to always use protection! its valentines day ill see what happens.

how much do u neeed to penetrate so i want to know if 4 inch is enough lol

Please don't double post, if you wanted to add something, use the edit button. Thanks. ~Joe~

[simpleasthat]

depends on the girl, she may like it deep, or not

[DaboiIndaShade]

hmmm but if she loved me she wouldnt care thinkking about doin it today if she like it she likes if not then not lol well we just gonna play around and see if it gets serious lol

[Requin]

So your 14? Honestly, it's not worth having sex. It's not that important, and not what it's cracked up to be. Is it honestly worth having 30 minutes of sex and risk STD's and pregnancy?? In my view it's not.

You think your ready for sex. But are you ready for the consequences?
Please just think about this.

Penis size isn't important really. If she loves you she shouldn't care.

[DaboiIndaShade]

well we r young minds and like to experiment so its up to me and her but thanks for yalls opinions

[Requin]

I know it's up to you. It's a free world. But as long as you know the risks that your taking.

[staying_alive]

i know you're probably tired of listening to everyone yammering about "you're too young" blah blah blah. You are absolutely right in that you and she are both young and like to experiment. However, i would advise that you experiment with foreplay before you go to intercourse. Much less chance of pregnancy and it can lead to intercourse if you both feel ready for it. Keep your options open, don't rush into full-blown sex when you don't have to. Making out + foreplay are just as fun without as much emotional burden.

[DaboiIndaShade]

hey thnx ill take that into consideration

[crisper99]

your penis will grow, you only 14 afterall
annddd if your girlfriend actually loves you and cares about you, she wont care

[CestDan]

OK, answering your question I would tell you that penis is NOT the most important thing that a g/f takes care about. Anyway, your penis is gonna grow more later.

However, (and I'm sorry if I offend anyone) aren't you young to have sex??? I mean, You're only 14. I suggest you to think it twice or more times, It's a very delicate topic and remember all the risks that you could have. Besides that, remember hat sex is not just "an action", It must have many values and feelings, like responsibility, affection, respect and over all love. Fix your mind, man, remember also all the responsibilities of being a parent (in the case if you don't use the appropriate protection).

Think it very well.

[Requin]

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