What Should I Do?

[Stark]

Me and my brother, usually jerk off together, we don't like jerk each other off, we're just together, I'm 15, he's 16. But, today when we did he, he said "How about we do stuff to each other this time?" and I said "Okay." Thinking we were just going to just jerk each other off, and that's how it started, but we ended up having hardcore sex, blow jobs, anal, everything. I really enjoyed it, but I know it was wrong, since he's my brother and everything. My question is, what should I do if he asks me again?

[confused1]

Whoa dude...

Umm if I were you, since it would be my brother...I would say not to do it again. Sounds like fun and enjoying. But he's your brother. So, I would just jerk off together. Maybe even a few bjs or hjs...but not hardcore sex..

hope that helps! :]

[Oblivion]

Well, seeing as it's incest, and illegal (in the US, most probably Australia as well), and would also cause family problems, just say no. Tell him it's both illegal, morally wrong (theoretically, but not necessarily, depending on your morals), and it will/can cause a very bad situation in your family.

Also a reason that it's deemed normal to do with friends but not with family (other than what's listed above) is that with friends, if it doesn't turn out well, you can stop being friends. But you can never stop being brothers, and will live together for at least 2 more years.

[Stark]

That's good advice, thank you. But can people still answer please.

[IAMWILL]

Yes definetly NEVER do this again. Not only is it wrong and somewhat disgusting, it could absolutely ruin your relationship with your brother. Jut say,"I really don't want to do this again" and be done with it. Still masturbate with him at night, so your not completely "dumping" him, but no more than that is really acceptable.

P.S. DO NOT EVER LET YOUR PARENTS KNOW THIS!!!

[Stark]

Thank you Sbrocksdaworld I will do that.

[byee]

Is this for real? I find it hard to believe two brothers would do this, out of nowhere and with no real history of this stuff.

The answer to this (hopefully) fantastical story is that you should not be doing this again, sexual contact between family members is always a bad thing, it complicates relationships b/c the boundaries have changed and people now look to eachother to have needs met that are best met with significant others at a later age.

[radboi]

SAY NO MEANs NO

[Stark]

I wont do it again. No means no. And yes it is true. I know it's abnormal but it is true.

[justateen93]

well since your asking us it means that you don't think it is normal so..... no
but you can still do whatever

[iceyfresh]

I sudgest you dont its ilegal and you can mess up your relation ship

[Tomo]

well seeing as it has already happened it wud be awkawrd , will it not ?
dont do it agen
i am geussing use r both gay am i right ?
DONT EVER LET URE MUM AN DAD NOW EVER EVER EVER

[Stark]

Thank you all for your answers.

[Bigboy1]

just say no if you don't want to

good god is it really so difficult

[Furn_93]

Well, of course, it doesn't sound like he's pressuring you into it, but if he asks again (don't j/o with him for a while, otherwise he's likely to ask again) then just explain you regretted it and that you don't think its right. (Regardless of how much you enjoyed it). You could get into a really really bad situation. It only takes one person to find out and you have chaos.

Don't tell anyone else.

Sorry my advice clashed with others, but thats the best I can give.

[nick]

Is this for real? I find it hard to believe two brothers would do this, out of nowhere and with no real history of this stuff.
I too find this hard to believe. If you want to have a sexual relationship with your brother, I suspect that the fact that its illegal is irrelevant. Other people telling you its wrong is irrelevant too. We all make our own choices. So if your sure your comfortable with it, and you enjoy it, then you will almost certainly keep doing it no matter what any one else says. So you have to stop and think for yourself whether your sure its the right thing. Personally I think it cant be right. But at the end of the day you'll make your own choice

[Stark]

Thank you. And it did happen.

[Eagle1]

id say not do anything like that but jerking each other or just together seems fine but if your uncomfortable just say no.

[PuppetPrince]

it really depends on your choice.. even though its illegal and could damage the relationship >.> but thats fine , if your completely fine with it. but if your unsure you have the right to say no and throw in like another time.. anyways your still gunna j/o with him..

[Bigboy1]

just say no if you don't want to

good god is it really so difficult

[appel123]

say yes and do it again