No Morals

[ViciousScheme]

Is it just me or does it feel like everyone is losing their morals? Getting blowjobs when your 12? Im keeping chastity, its hard, but I am, and it feels like instead of being rewarded, its being rubbed in my face that everyone else is having more fun. Being a slut at age 14 is common now? This is just so upsetting to find girls that are pregnant at 14-15. I cant even comprehend whats happening because its happening so fast. Please tell me im not going to feel like im missing out on something for the rest of my teen-hood.

[AllThatIsLeft]

you are not "missing" on anything. It is a personal choice. It also has to do on how "exposed" you are to it.

it depends from person to person. Not everyone sees it as a sacred gift, and think the younger they lose it, the cooler they are.

they will see later in life, that is not the case.

It is one's choice to do what we please with our bodies,
some think the quicker the better,
some (like me), believe in the right time.
and some believe in waiting till marriage

the world is changing, morals do not play such a big role anymore. but it is up to every person to choose at their own risk.

the most we can ask, is to protect themselves and try to do it for the right reasons.

[Oblivion]

For me, taking such a huge risk, for 30 minutes of pleasure is not a fair exchange.
So many teens think about how cool it is, and how good it feels to have sex, but they don't understand that even a blowjob, or handjob is a choice that starts determining their future, and the rest of their lives.
You can get STDs from blowjobs, easily. Handjobs as well, if you have a cut on your hand say- or a simple scratch etc.
And vaginal sex... Most teens are too scared to get a condom, or the pill. Even if they get up the courage to do so, it's not a 100% chance it will work.

So the main reason I plan on waiting as long as possible: I'm not willing to A) get a girl pregnant I'm not ready to spend the rest of my life with, and B) be one of the 1/5 Americans to have an STD.
I'm not ready to take a risk for pleasure I can otherwise get enjoying life, and doing less risky activities that don't decide my future.

[Archer600]

well peope are loosing their morals but it is because the society we live in offers no alternative we are all basicaly told thatall these things are ok. It's a fact of life. But it is everyone's choicewether they do bad things or not.