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There_Goes_My_Life
December 26th, 2005, 12:08 AM
Ok, i wasn't sure where to put this but I settled on 'Relationships'... I'm fifteen... and for some reason (lately) i've been wanting to have a baby... they are just really cute and everything... (that sounds childish)... but no... I want the responsibility... someone to love... and i want a family... it's just so confusing... i don't know how to word it all right... HELP!!

There_Goes_My_Life
December 26th, 2005, 03:46 AM
I know how much responsibility they are, and how expensive... after all i am the big sister of a thirteen year old brother, eight, five, and five year old sisters. I know all about that... i don't know what's up with me though... I just grrr... i really want to wait, and i know i will it's just i have this nagging feeling you know??? it's really hard to explain... but the nagging feeling increases when i'm around babies... urgh...

There_Goes_My_Life
December 26th, 2005, 03:57 AM
Thanks!

There_Goes_My_Life
December 26th, 2005, 04:54 AM
That sounds like it could be a possibility!

OCD4ME
December 26th, 2005, 02:22 PM
hun i hate to say it but akid at 15 isnt somthing to joke around about i no it sounds fun in all but its somthing you have to talk about with boifriend,parents,siblings.... cause it wont just effect you it will effect everyone an dthing around you.....and dont be afraid to talkto your mom about im sure shell have a comment or two for ya ...

hope all goes well

sencerly.... the girl with dogtags.

*-tick tock-*
December 26th, 2005, 03:04 PM
i know exactly how u feel i wish i could have a baby now but i cant take that responsibility.
i have a one month old nephew...my sister and her husband are having sleepless nights, they have to feed,care, love, change, basically attend to the baby unless hes asleep..
i watch hima nd hes the cutest thing but looking at what they have to go thru...makes me wanna wait...

i think u should too.... live ur life til u get older and are financially and mentally able to support a baby!

There_Goes_My_Life
December 26th, 2005, 11:24 PM
hun i hate to say it but akid at 15 isnt somthing to joke around about i no it sounds fun in all but its somthing you have to talk about with boifriend,parents,siblings.... cause it wont just effect you it will effect everyone an dthing around you.....and dont be afraid to talkto your mom about im sure shell have a comment or two for ya ...

hope all goes well

sencerly.... the girl with dogtags.

Yes, that comment would be "You're not to even LOOK at any guys until you're married got it?"

There_Goes_My_Life
December 26th, 2005, 11:26 PM
i know exactly how u feel i wish i could have a baby now but i cant take that responsibility.
i have a one month old nephew...my sister and her husband are having sleepless nights, they have to feed,care, love, change, basically attend to the baby unless hes asleep..
i watch hima nd hes the cutest thing but looking at what they have to go thru...makes me wanna wait...

i think u should too.... live ur life til u get older and are financially and mentally able to support a baby!

Yeah, waiting is definately something i want to do... it's just everytime i see a baby it's like "Ugh, i want one!!"