depressed and really really stressed

[DarkWingedAngel]

well im depressed agen
because my mom and dad had a big fight in court today



and well im really really stressed because my gf's ex got her pregnant
and well she wants me to help with the child and help rease her
but i don't think i can do it because well first off im a girl and well second im 15
i really love her and want to be there but at the same time i want a life
i will be at the hospital with her when she is having this child but i don't think i can take care of this child

help

[byee]

Wow, Desi. I'm sorry, this is a lot.

The common theme in both these examples is that you're getting the brunt of other people's affairs. So, you might want to let your folks know how you feel when they beat eachother up in court, as well as your g/f decision to have someone else's baby.

You're in relationships with these people, so you're going to be affected by the things/events in their lives, but you do not necessarily have to blindly accept them. Let them know how you feel and what you're willing to accept.

[Prince_of_Peace]

Don't get me wrong. She was responsible enough to be sleeping with a man...so she should be responsible enough to raise her child. You can only do as much...plus you are only 15. About your parents, you can only love them for who they are. You will not exist if they did not love each other once upon a time. Do not carry the world on your shoulders...and never blame yourself for people who have become irresponsible with their lives. The best thing for you to do is relax and take things one at a time. Trust God and He will make miracles in your life. I pray and it has helped me live up to now. I tried suicide and was rushed to the hospital...that is what the devil wants me to do...to have a miserable life. Do not give in to negative thought that comes from him. The only looser that I know is him. You have a bright future ahead of you. There are night times but the sun always rise up in the morning. Have patience and everything will be alright.

[Θάνατος]

Well you are right it is not your responsibility to help raise that child. It is always nice to help your g/f out but don't feel pressured into becoming a parent to that child.

Desi if you are depressed you need to find something to keep your mind off of your problems. Read a book, watch a movie or go for a walk. The import thing to remember here is not sit around the house and dwell on your depression.