WaHoo!!!

[Viral Death]

Ok my girlfriend is coming to visit on sunday and well we have been talking about having sex

[Aηdy]

Well it's not for us to decide.

But bow old are you both, and how long have you been together?

[mrpenguin]

If you both feel your ready then you should but as Ziggy said its not up to us its up to you two! :)
Plus I recommend having protection.

Oh and Colton_Reeves if you haven't seen yet i've sent you a PM! :)

[Antares]

Well I would suggest no, but I don't know the circumstances so my opinion isn't entirely reliable.

[Viral Death]

Well it's not for us to decide.

But bow old are you both, and how long have you been together?

Well we are in the same grade (8th) but she is 14 and I am 13 and we have been going out for a year now

[mrpenguin]

mmm...now that you've said that your 13 going on 14 then I dunno your still young also do you both feel ready to and remember don't push her into it, it could make things bad and if you are ready then as I said before use protection. ;)

[Random_oso06]

well i think your to young to do it you barely in 8th grade and what if something happeneds and she gets pregnant you screw you life before you even go to high school i say no

[Furn_93]

Well, you're both very young, so I wouldn't recommend it.

But, as long as you don't try and do it out love (because at this age you can only discover, but not fully experience love). As long as you know its just a teen experience, its ok.

[Kalphite]

I should say, do what your mind tell you to do =] not what other people tell you to do.

[Oblivion]

Well you said in the poll you're uncomfortable with it?
You definitely should not do anything sexual you are even slightly uncomfortable with.

[Viral Death]

Well it was just part of what I should tell her in the no answer

And well but I was talking to her and she asked me if I was ready and I felt like I was ready

[Stark]

If you want to do it, then do it.

[Archer600]

Oh just do it I know people who have done it younger than you

[Oblivion]

Oh just do it I know people who have done it younger than you

That doesn't mean it's right.
It just means there are people younger and frankly dumber than him.

[Viral Death]

Oh just do it I know people who have done it younger than you

Ok akward???

But we have talked over it so I think it might be a yes she is waiting for my answer

[iceyfresh]

Id say go for it dude.

[Tiberius]

Its completely up to you two but I personally think that if you are ready for it then have fun and remember to have safe sex :p

[Viral Death]

Ok we will have safe sex

(Can't Wait!!!)

[IAMWILL]

One last piece of advice. If you decide to go through with this and have sex, don't do anything if one of you IS IN ANY WAY SLIGHTLY UNCOMFORTABLE. A little feeling can make a big difference, and you don't want to regret this. And off course wear a condom and take it slow, it's your first time. Oh ya, and make sure you deliberately ask her if she really wants to do this, don't engage unless your both ready and 100% sure about it. But most importanty, HAVE FUN!!!

[Requin]

Look, sex is enjoyable, it's a pleasurable experience. But as your only 14 and 13, that is very young. And if your uncomfortable with it then don't do it. I would say no as having sex really young isn't always the best thing.

But if you both want to do it. Make sure you do it safely. Good condoms remember.
But at the end of the day, we will warn you, but it's entiarley up to you. Also, remember that if either one of you feels uncomfortable, stop. Simple as that, you want your first sex experience to be pleasurable, not difficult and uncomfortable.

[byee]

13, huh? How far into puberty are you?

Sex is pleasurable when you're both physically and emotionally developed enough to appreciate it. At 13, you're really at the beginning of all this, and, although this might sound patronizing (Eventhough I don't mean it this way), you're too young. Sex at 13 is like those old rockers (Like Mick and the Boys of the Stones) dying their hair to look younger. It's just out of sorts.

It's very flattering that she wants to share herself with you, and it's a very tempting offer, but the reality of what sex is like at 13 is far different, and probably not worth the lifetime of memories you'll have and how it might influence your developing opinion of things sexual. Having sex before the physical and emotional pieces are in place is very likely to be a disappointing experience.

Go rent a movie, get a pizza, snuggle under the blanket on the couch as you watch it. Enjoy what you have and don't push it. When the time is right, you'll know.

[nick]

Yeah that does sound patronising.

Its not up to us to guess or judge how physically and emotionally developed you both are. If you both feel ready and really want to do it then, with the proper precautions, go for it.

If you're not really sure then hold off. Anyway, bit of an odd thing to have a poll about, not sure we should be having a vote on it!

[Viral Death]

Well I did that puberty survey and it said 3.2

[Bigboy1]

just make sure you both really want to do it

[Triceratops]

Well I did that puberty survey and it said 3.2

Well that just explains it all really.
My opinion? Just don't.

I don't want to sound mega patronizing but you're way too young and you're probably not mature enough for it (emotionally and physically).

Wait til you're a bit older, and more responsible.
Enjoy your younger years while you can :] Instead of worrying about sex.

[Viral Death]

Well we didnt do it her parents had her come up to visit her brothers and I had to go to vernal

[Cindex]

Well you avoided it then. It is a very nervous experience, and you MAY need to be more mature to handle it.

Age is simply a number. My therapist tells me I think like this because I pass up people older than me in many ways, but it really is just a number. You're 13, but what's wrong with that? If you're ready, you're ready.

My first try was at 13, so I don't see a problem. It's very nerve-wrecking, and if you're not careful you can ruin your relationship. Sex should only bring you closer. If you ever do have sex with her, make sure not to treat her like you own her. That's a common mistake around here, and you can ruin it for both of you if you're not careful.

Even though it didn't happen now, I don't think it's a horrible thing if you get the chance. Just remember to ALWAYS be safe. Getting a little "out of the moment" is nothing compared to getting her pregnant. Good luck :)

[Schon]

aww, that sucks man, sorry, D:



oh god, i just noticed how old this is :P sorry. (edit)

[zack0507]

yea m8 go 4 it

[JackOfClubs]

Ya, 13 is a bit young..... But if both of you are really sure about your relationship, and you are safe about it, then, sure, go ahead.

[punkjake]

I mite "experiment"(touch each other,MAYBE blow job)but real sex(anal,vagianl)i wouldn't,like somebody said enjoy your "childhood/youngteenhood:D"/time .Maybe wait for that "special person" but if you do have sex use a condom.But listen to your heart not our comments,well beside the use a condom

[Requin]

Old thread guys. :locked: