is this normal?

[HOLEinyoursoul]

im 14 and i have a girlfriend and i watch porn. but i watch gay porn as well... but im not gay. is this ok? cuz when i cum i feel bad that i jerked to gay porn...

[Mzor203]

It's normal and you shouldn't feel bad about it. Many guys go through a phase where they are curious about other guys. It'll most likely die down as you get older.

[Neverender]

your not gay because you watch gay porn, or do gay things or have gay thoughts. what makes you gay is if you love boys emotionally and physically. and its completely normal to do this when you have a girlfriend. Few boys go through puberty with no feelings for other boys.

and this will die down later on in your teen years as your body becomes accustomed to the hormone levels in your body.

[Oblivion]

Moved to Teen Sexuality.

Like the above said, its completely normal. You are curious about (and maybe enjoy) the sex and appearance of males. Anything sexual will turn most people on, be them gay, bi, or straight.
Being gay is on the inside, not an attraction to sex.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

but sometimes i feel like jerkin to porn with friends. idk it feels weird. like i wanna have sex. not nessesarily with my friends but with them or a girl pref my gf. just makes me feel like a queer...

whoa thnx shattered. that really helped (no joke)

[Mzor203]

Hormones do many things with your body. It's normal for teens to want to have sex, etc. As people said, it'll settle down later. Just gotta ride it out.

[Oblivion]

No probalemo.
It's also normal to want to experiment with friends- just another sexual urge to explore different things.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

is there anyway i could ask you guys for help with my girlfriend? meaning we want to have sex but idk there are complications. sometimes it feels awkward for her. how can i help her?

[Θάνατος]

Both Rex and Ryan are right it doesn't matter what you watch to get off too you are not gay because you want gay porn.

It could be a phase you are going through OK, but even if it is not there is nothing wrong with watching gay porn. It is by no means an indicator that you are gay or bi.

I also find it offensive that you use the word queer here when people are tying to help you.

[Oblivion]

is there anyway i could ask you guys for help with my girlfriend? meaning we want to have sex but idk there are complications. sometimes it feels awkward for her. how can i help her?

Hm well if she isn't ready, the best thing for you to do is give her time and not pressure her into it.
Just respect her boundaries.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

thanks shattered. and sorry for offending you handssolo. didn't mean it that way. by the way is there a way you can edit your profile like age and profile picture?

[Oblivion]

Yep, right here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/usercp.php)
Along the left side there are options.

[Θάνατος]

Hey it is cool. I don't worry I am not mad or hold any grudges at all. I hope you got the help to your questions you were looking for.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

can't figure out how to show my age

[Oblivion]

Here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/profile.php?do=editprofile)
Click 'Display Age' on the drop down menu.